Loosen up or you'll the miss the fun of it!

Okay - we're getting into the swing of Holiday already...I was in a store at the Mall yesteray and they had ALL of their Christmas decor out and it's not even October 15th yet! And if I didn't loosen up, I will possibly miss the fun of it! So I threw my head back, forgot about step, step, turn, kick, and just danced, celebrating the onset of Holidays!!! Wheeeeew, that was fun!!! I hope you'll not let it make you uptight and get wrapped up in nonessential stuff...but that you will really enjoy yourself and remember this Season as the time to make moments count.....and guess what??? when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you'll dance. Just enjoy all the decor if nothing else right now. There's Halloween on one corner, then Thanksgiving at the Dollar Stores and Christmas at the Mall! Have a HT - Happy Thursday!!!

Possibilities

One of my favorite authors at one time was Emily Dickinson. She always wrote "I dwell in Possibilities." That means so much to me. When I hear Paul Simon's song "Born at the Right Time" I think he must be singing about me. It makes me understand that I have the right to choose my own path (but since I am a Christ-follower, I ask our precious Lord to guide me as His will predicts) as these choices are a sacred privilege. Use it. Dwell in possibility. What a gift that is to all of us who live in the land of the free! I hope your Wednesday is happy! : )

Posing Question To Me

Here's a question I was asked this week: Does the feeling of entrapment only happen late in life, or does it sometimes occur earlier?

I believe the majority of divorces can be traced to disrespect and marital claustrophobia. In simple every day plain language ladies...that's when you put a chain around your husband's neck or ankle and want him trapped in the home just because you are bored or want to control his life. LET GO and let him breathe!!!!

If a husband feels trapped in the home and is only doing you a favor by working to provide for you and the family, then check out your chain because if you pitch a fit, it adds stress, lies, ill-feelings, entrapment which is very dangerous in your married life. You are devaluing him, trying to make him wimpy and lacking confidence in yourself. Please try to be grateful for all his hard work and appreciative of his wisdom of plain ole honesty and integrity in reaching goals that are attained. And while I'm on the subject.....teach your kids to love and respect their Daddy for caring enough to reach those goals. Kids learn all this from you, Mom, so have some rock solid character and behind their Daddy's back don't rip him apart.

I recently had the privilege of speaking to a Ladies' Meeting that brought out this subject......was I brave? Yes. Did they like it? No. It goes against society's dictation....but I say, be different....go the positive way and maintain a healthy, loving, kind statement household!

Philippians 2:3 says "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves." Have a happy Tuesday! Trust the Lord to help you in every way and e-mail me if your questions need deeper answers.

Unexpectations With Friendship

My life has a new unexpected layer....I thought I was through making close friends. Much to my surprise, thought, I found myself with a friend I hadn't seen for a long time, laughing, talking serious, but just connecting and embracing one another as a part of everyday life. It's added a new meaning, a feeling of community I didn't even know I was missing. We had become friends, oh I would say about five years ago when we were both at a Conference and she didn't bring any ladies from her church and I didn't either. Now, all we have to do when we are too busy is just connect via my blog or a daily devotional she writes that I subscribe to.

I've always known that life is better when you share it. I now realize it gets even sweeter when you expand the circle....look to a friend you haven't seen for a while, make a point to reconnect and enjoy the pure fellowship, friendship, and just plain ole fun! We learn from each other! The unexpected! My heart is open to the future being friends with her. Bring it on!

on the 5th I have 555 posts!!!!

That's incredible!!! On the 5th, I have posted 555 blogs......whoa!!! Consistency....totally and absolutely!
Enjoyed writing....without a shadow of doubt!
Want to learn more about blogging....mosst definitely!

See ya in Church...let's fill the pews....we have a surprise for everyone today!
You'll have to attend and see!!! Bring your friends, family, and co-workers!!!
....where love waits! and.... Hope, Guidance, and Security!!!! 10-11 a.m.
One hour of great teaching, relevant worship songs, and a where you will really feel welcomed!

True Belief

One of my beliefs is this statement I'm going to share and to be honest, it is how I live my life and when I can't I fully rely on God to forgive me for not living this way and redirect my thoughts!

Happiness is never something you get from other people. The happiness I feel is in direct proportion to the Love I choose to give. Let go of your anger with anyone and see what gets returned. Be loving to yourself and others and see that love reciprocated. What you're thinking, what you're saying, what you're doing, is having an impact on you and the people around you right now. I know it for sure.

See ya in Church tomorrow. I have tons of Outreach to do today. God will definitely see me through. Of course I value and appreciate your prayers.

Favorite Season

It's coming upon my favorite Season - thanksgiving!!!! It's not easy being grateful all the time. But it's when you feel least thankful that you are most in need of what gratitude can give you!

I live in the space of thankfulness and I have been rewarded a million times over for it! I started out telling ladies to give thanks for small things, like a doorknob! That's because what you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it. Opportunities, relationships, even money flowed my way when I learned to be grateful no matter what happened in my life.

I know some people who have a problem with "Thank you" say, "You don't have to thank me!" Excuse me....oh yes we do! You wanna get me on a soapbox - try that one on for size! You're saying thank you because you know that even in the eye of the storm, God has put a rainbow in your clouds. You're saying thank you because you know there's no problem created that can compare to the Creator of all things!

I challenge you to start a gratitude journal...begin by listing five things that you are grateful for. And....if the only prayer you ever say in your whole life is "Thank you," - that would suffice! Thank you, Lord, for saving my soul from the pits of hell!!!! I promised it will allow you to look at your day differently!

Thank you Lord for Friday, for beautiful weather, for my mums that are blossoming out so very lovely, for family that loves me, for a husband who provides, for love, comfort and care from our almighty God, for ....and the list goes on and on. How about you? How far does your list go? Guess you can see now while my favorite Season is Thanksgiving! Yea!!!!

Who Defines Your Life?

It's up to each of us to get very still and say, "This is WHO I am." No one else definites your life. Only you do.

So whenever trouble comes my way, I ask, "What is this here to teach me? What am I not seeing?" I know the answer will come. And I stay close (very close) to God!

Are You Living Your Best Life?

Why not? I know some who love pure misery. Well, that's not me. I also know some who delight in always starting a ruckus. (That's an Okie term). Some people can't stand someone else being happy. ....or how about this one? They want to control your life and when they can't - they stay away thinking it will hurt you.....not me...I figure it's their problem if they want to live in that kind of chaos.

On to living your best life. Here's an inspirational thought: Friends are important because they are the ones who are there for you when you are in need of security and advice. They accept you for you and make your life more fun and exciting! Chew on that one for a while. Live your best life - it's all you have!

It Was Fun!!! ...some random thoughts....

My hubby's birthday yesterday......I made his favorite cake in the whole wide world...chocolate mayonnaise cake....homemade, real homemade icing - you know the old fashioned kind confectioners sugar, butter, vanila (that sounds like a mystery seasoning now since it's not used very much) and real hershey's cocoa!!!! Tasted a little dry with the cake because I only had Europiean cocoa....but I went to the store and got hershey's for the icing and it was fabulous! Well, he's one year older, but seems to love it!!! A-ha.....and it's not old like he thought it would be!

Today is a great day to remind ourselves that fall weather is almost here....a bit chilly in the mornings...I have to prepare myself for fall and I noticed our neighbor is raking his leaves already.......hmmm.....is it time for fall clothes..what prepares you for fall? After I planted the Mums, I saw fall coming and I did wear a hoodie Sunday while the football game was on. Of course, my hubby says I'm cold natured anyway...guess I am....have a terrific Tuesday!

JOY

What does the word joy mean to you?

To me it means the happiest of happies!!!!

I'm a very JOY-ful person and I really make no bones about it. I've even been criticized unbearingly by statements like "Where does she get her energy?" to "She couldn't be that happy!" It doesn't take much to make me joyful. I'm just joyous. Maybe that's why my Mom named me Carol....it means JOY!!!

Today just give it a try.............being joyful! It may make people wonder what you're up to!!!!

Practice being JOYFUL; it's an exercise you won't forget!!!!

Inspirational Thought

Belief in ourselves is like a muscle --- it is strengthened by constant and careful use.

Whether you believe you CAN or you believe you cannot - you're right either way.

I base my beliefs on the Bible. So........in looking up Proverbs 3:5-6 it plainly says "lean not unto your own understanding" but to "TRUST in God." Do we really trust in God or us....I can guarantee you it's okay to believe in one's self. God is always there to lean on and I can assure you of that one FACT!

See ya in church. 10 a.m. let's fill up the pews!!!!!!!! Awesome!

Favorite Thing To Do

One of my favorite things to do is go sit by the Lake and watch the waves come in. My husband is getting ready to celebrate a happy event...one year older (or is it younger) trust me, he doesn't like a lot of hip hip hoorah for his birthday like some of us....ahmmmmmm .....so yesterday I got him one of the things he wanted, fishing license so off to the Lake we go...he caught a lot of fish (I love watching that) and I actually laid on the bench and fell asleep....it was so peaceful...and as it got darker...it was still so peaceful. Anyway, we had a lil' picnic right there on the lake; then we came back home and watched the debates.

It's fun to go to the Lake and clear my brain with my favorite and his also, thing to do!!!! Hope your Saturday is eventful.

A final note: I wish our grandson would have been there to see the look on his face when his grandpa caught a catfish!!! Again, have a super Saturday!

Super Day!

Hi-ya.....it looks like a super day to "tie up loose ends" which means...go get the dog food, stand in line at the Post Office and get stamps, go out and make someone's day (my favorite thing to do) and some work at the church....wrapped up in a super day! Have a Super Day yourself...while I'm at it!!! :)

Finally Caught Up!

I'm finally caught up on reading blogs that I'm associated with. I tell ya, there's an aweful lot of hurting people out there. Does anyone really care? I do. That's what's so aggravating that there are people who care and I'm proud to say put me in that category. All they have to do is pick up the phone, call, and share. Too much pride!!! But, writing their thoughts on their blog is their own way of saying "hey does anyone care????" Whatever you do, please don't fall in the negative attitude of it's all about me and who cares about anyone else. I have seen time after time this happening and believe you me they are the ones that can live with that attitude...I don't choose to be that way!

We raised two phenomenal kids - of course they are grown and have an adult life but they are both extremely caring and that makes me proud as a Mom and that's what it's all about and added to that is a daughter-in-law who cares and two caring grandkids. I came up with a good phrase...the family that cares together, stays together!!!! Now, that's encouraging! and......I'm so very grateful that our daughter took time out of her very busy schedule to call last night checking on us. That was cool. and.....why blog? because I love it!!!! It's a time to be thankful and thoughtful of others.......family.....church members.....friends.....learning about relationships, etc.....the list goes on and on. It does take time to get caught up, but my heart is happy for all the great things that have been happening to families and people!!!!

Again, the moral of this story is - there are people who think seeing obstacles is a sign of maturity and insight. But, anyone of average intelligence can do that. God wants people who see a way beyond the obstacles and who encourage others to take it!

Honor the Whole Team!

People who build successful teams never forget tht every person's role is contributing tot he bigger picture.

We have a team of volunteers at church each month now! We all need encouragement. Just letting someone know their work is appreciated makes this team run more smoothly, becoming stronger and more effective. it sure has taken a load off me!

The nice thing about teamwork is that you always have others on your side!!! Amen on that one! Enjoy your Wednesday!

New Feeling - random super thoughts!

A lot of people at church yesterday said I had a new take on my blog lately...they say they enjoy me sharing personal stuff........hmmmmmm so ....I can honestly say it gives me a new feeling and maybe someone out there in cyberspace can be uplifted by something that has happened or going to happen to me...who knows....I enjoy sharing my heart and love everyone so much that communicate with me - hey guys that doesn't mean I don't love the ones who don't communicate....I'm a people person and my gift is exhorting (so says my husband) so if you don't want to be exhorted (or encouraged my takes won't mean anything! it's awesome! What's awesome? Hearing from everyone!

Have a very happy Monday! Think I'll get this day going by pre-shopping for my hubby's b-day next Monday...the only super thing is he is going with me....we'll just shop 'til we drop...he says he doesn't want anything, but surely at an Outlet Mall he'll crater!!!!!!
Carol :)

Be Grateful When Feeling Good

The happiest person on earth isn't always happy. In fact, the happiest people all have their fair share of low moods, problems, disappointments, and heartache. Often the differenc ebetween a person who is happy and someone who is unhappy is how often they get low, or even how low they drop, but instead it's what they do with their low moods. How do they relate to their changing feelings?

When I observe peaceful, relaxed people, I find that that when they are feeling good, they are so caring and very grateful. They understand that both positive and negative feels come and go, and that there will come a time when they won't be feeling so good. To happy people, this is okay; it's the way of things.

To a person always in a low mood, they don't know the difference because they are so comfortable with their low moods. They don't care because in due time maybe they'll be happy and maybe not. (Most generally not). And to be honest, they are drainy to me....my energy gets sapped from their "pretty far down mood."

I'd rather have grateful feelings and feel good, wouldn't you?

Such Joy!

Yesterday I had the JOY of visiting with a devout friend of mine and she has a boyfriend who is an Attorney. She was telling me what a great trip they had to go to Colorado and ski. .....and at the tip top of the mountains where they were skiing of all things he receives an urgent call from his office re: one of his clients. I never laughed so hard in my life. Now, remember, I wouldn't know the least bit about skiing because that is something I've never done in my entire life. My grandkids know more about it than I ever thought of having any idea! As she told the story how complicated it got, I couldn't stop laughing thinking of the visual! Then she started comparing what it would be like to be married to a Pastor (my circumstances) as to an Attorney........trust me...believe it or not, there's not much difference...anyway such JOY we had just sharing!!!!!

have you ever done that? just shared JOY? Try it, you'll like it!!!! I'm totally convinced that JOY will really enlighten your day; don't think about being all stressed out...get on a subject that will share JOY - it's healthy for the soul!

See ya at W.O.W. tomorrow (I'll be preparing for it today). 9 a.m. Love, JOY, and lots of humor, Carol

Took the Week Off Blogging

Since I love blogging so much, I decided to take the week off and rest my brain on writing. I have truly missed blogging! I got caught up on the other people I blog with, so that was awesome!

In our area of Church work (which is 98 percent of our time) we did a counting of how many visitors we have had at our church. It pretty much averages 100 a year...we have 500 visitor cards filled out. That's totally amazing. Some have stayed; some have not. Some are just passing through; some don't have a church home; it took a while to do the report, but it sure has been interesting!

I hope your Friday turns out well. There have been so many who are enjoying this fall weather. I planted 6 bunches of Mums....they are so beautiful; I can't stop looking at them. Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.

My husband took me on a lunch date yesterday...to my very favorite place, Los Lupes. I actually cratered and ate the smorgusboard lunch! Talk about being stuffed! No way I could go back for seconds; oh, I love their tamales.....yum, yum, yum! It's just as cheap to get the smorgusboard because of the lunch specials.

Let me hear from you and what you are up to and I hope your week has been awesome.
Happy Friday!!!

Trust Issues

I have many good memories and some bad ones about trust issues. I recall the victories, the failures, the wise choices that someone was watching out for my best interest, and the mistakes that were made because I assured my self I could trust the person I told something to, but in the long run it back-fired on me.

The one thing my husband and I have is devout trust and he shares with me his heart and the fact that people say things to him about "his own wife." Does it hurt? You bet it does. The way I see it; sad as it may be, they are the ones that have to live with their guilty conscience. I have asked God to help me learn and grow because of them. To forgive my shortcomings and show me how to forgive them. He will grant me the love and strength to forgive those who have wronged me. And when the hurt returns, I will thank Him for getting through the chaos it involved.

Then the good memories flow through like a sweet, floral fragrance, so pleasant, so good. The times can never be retrieved; someetimes I wish they could. I'm learning to retrieve the lively, warm fires and to leave the sad, cold ashes behind. Forgiveness lingers like a healing balm and I remember to thank the Lord for the trials.

I know there are several people who e-mail me comments instead of putting them out here on the web; but yet, still, my confidence is in the Lord who gives me strength and encouragement. And plus I have phenomenal bounce back!

Just sharing my heart.....have a wonderful Lord's Day filled with many blessings and joy.

See you in Church 10:00 a.m. Yep I'm up early and can't wait!!!!!

Some People Subtract Something From Life

we tolerate them.
I read once what Julius Caesar asserted "A friend should bear his friend's infirmities. But Brutus makes mine great than they are." That's what subtracers do. They do not bear our burdens and they make heavier the ones we already have. The sad thing about subtracters is that what they do is usually unintentional. If you don't know how to add to others, then you probably subtract by default.

It's similar to the difference between building a relationship and purposely tearing it down. It takes a skilled craftsman much time and energy to build a beautiful chair. It takes no skill whatsoever to smash that chair in a matter of moments.

I value people who multiply something in life than the people who go around subtracting from life! How about you? I'm fortunate - for every bad that a person does to tear me down I have so many who respect me and sharpen my vision and maximize my strengths.

I'm encouraged by focusing on the importance of valuing and growing trustin relationships. I want to add to someone's success than see them stumble.

True character is seen when you ADD to making someone's life important and not tearing them down all the time. That's the bottom line.......say happy things about someone; don't get caught ruining their testimony and causing a rift in their marriage. And please know I would rather have my strengths maximizes than my faults! Any day! See ya in church! 10 a.m. tomorrow!

Givers or Takers?

I'm definitely a giver because I don't receive well. I'm always grateful but when I recently had my birthday; I couldn't wait to send my "Thank You's" because of my appreciation. What about You? Are you a giver or a taker? Or are you somewhere in between? What concrete steps can you take today and move further along from being a taker to being a giver? II Corinthians 8:1-5 is great to read regarding Jesus' affirming words about Mary's extravagant gift to Him. I always want to give a gift; shopping for someone is such a joy. My husband says I have giving attacks - that's when I always want to take a person or our family out to eat.....it makes me feel good to see someone appreciate what they received or just really like what I took time to get them. I could write on and on about this subject.

I hope your Friday is just fantastic. I have a lot of loose ends to tie up and get ready for Q&A for Sunday. We're having hamburgers instead of hot dogs this time. That should be super! Hope you will plan to come out - worship at 10 a.m. and Q&A around 11:10 a.m. It would be our pleasure to serve you!

The Eternal Love Of God

As I have listened to hundreds of stories from women; their disappointment and anger falls into three categories. We are disappointed in ourselves, in others, and in our more honest moments, we are disappointed with God.

Our culture calls to us that what we need is self-esteem, that all would be well if we just felt better about ourselves. That is a lie. We live on a broken planet....a disappointing place. But, I urge you to bring whatever it is about yourself that disappoints you to God and let Him love you as you are right now. We cannot do it on our own, but God's outrageous and eternal love teaches us how to forgive. It is God's gift to us to help us live in a world that is not fair. All we have to do is ask God for the grace to extend forgiveness. Has someone hurt or disappointed you? Forgive and forgive again. Don't let a root of bitterness well up.

I encourage you to read Titus 3:4-5. God's love is definitely eternal!

Today is a sad day in history as we all know...9/11/02 devastating and tradgic....I urge you to pause a moment to reflect on New York and what those people are still feeling the pain of lost loved ones. It is going to be my plan today to pray for all in New York as so many of the news coverage brings back the horrifying event - I know it must be difficult for all.....I hope they feel God's love (His Eternal Love) in such a special way this day. ...from my heart, Carol

Peace

It's so peaceful in the morning time when all the neighborhood is sleeping and sometimes I sit on the front porch and do some "thinkin." I've been thinkin' about peace lately. Peace is a choice! I've seen some people walk their dogs early in the morning and if the dogs starts barking, they don't say a word to the dog in that it might awaken someone. Don't tell me we are living in a world of non-caring that badly? I choose peace. I very carefully close the front door so I will not awaken my hubby or even our dogs.

I've earned this peace......Being a morning person means I always got to work early and got my day going. It's a great time to think....just get things going.......so I hope you have a lot of peace in your home. I met with a lady this morning - oh - let's say around 5ish a.m. and she has three daughters.......great person and she just wanted to tell me how much I had helped her....wow! Can't beat that peace and contentment from a compliment like that!

Have a happy Wednesday. I know I will! I have so much to be thankful for!!!!

About Relationship Living In Marriage

Keep the fire going!

In dealing with women each week, several times I have been asked to tell about the many many years I have in relationship living in marriage. Okay, here's my encouragement:

I'm sixty-five.
I spent some of the years of my marrige expecting my husband to be more like me.
I spent the next ten years resenting that he wasn't.
Young women - and that's those of you under sixty - don't do that.
That's not living; that's drudgery.
You want to live. You don't want to drudge. Trust me!
Understand your man and get on with life!

Make it your goal to know what his pet peeves are. Then honor them and him definitely! Don't make him a project. If you want a project, take up knitting! Please him. If he likes a clean house, clean it up. I make it a point to have laughter in our marriage. Laughing for the pure joy of laughing. And laughing again and again! It's a great connection with him! Laughter is the exclamation point put on life! I'll put out some tid-bits in my blog. After forty-one years of marriage I definitely have some encouragement. All I ask is don't get a critical spirit of your husband.....honor, praise, and be grateful for him.

How Precious Are Those Grandkids? Very Precious!!

I missed their call! Our precious grandkids called to wish us a Happy Grandparents Day! I fell asleep on the couch after the ballgame and clean missed their call.. but they were on the answering machine so I heard part of it. Other than that, my hubby picked it up and for some reason I couldn't wake up enough to talk to them!

They are precious......oh so precious....I'll talk to them sometime soon...they have such perfect phone manners....and yes, they are very precious!

Have a happy Monday!!!! I've already been out and about, so I know I will!

Grandparent's Day!!!!

Don't even get me started on this day! I LOVE being a Grandma. Recently we purchased a bunk bed for our two grandkids - of course they have their own room at G & G's home! So, we went to Anna's Linens to purchase the bed spread, sheets, etc. Our granddaughter chose the most lucious colors - aqua and brown and the complete twin size bed set was awesome....she chose striped with those color sheets and pillow cases. What's really neat is she chose a package that had super extra stuff -even to large towells to match! They are all gorgeous on her bed with the cool pillows. Then our grandson chose Nascar theme with a leather wheel pillow and a big (giant) pillow of walle-e eve - it's a cool pillow and what I love the most about going shopping with them is I'm up on what the new craze is! And they are always so grateful...what magnificent kids! So, do I love Grandparent's Day? Yep!

I hope they have a terrific day as well as their parents because today is their wedding anniversary; so in thinking about this day; it's going to be quite eventful for all concerned! Here's something our granddaughter (she's 10 yrs. of age) wrote on our chalkboard here at Grandma's. "Welcome to G & G's house where a grandkid can be a grandkid." Can't beat that one with a stick!!!!

Someone has said, when a woman has stopped bragging about how smart her chilren are (that won't ever happen with me) it's because she has started bragging about how smart her grandchildren are!!! Oh yes, and with that and a fresh cup of coffee this bright and early Lord's Day, I am going to enjoy being a Grandma - you bet~!!!!

I wouldn't leave our grandson out for the world!!!! ........there are no other word to describe him as very aware! He always notices when something is different when he comes over and it's as if he looks around and makes a special point to make a comment about something I have changed or things he really likes. He is so cool!

See ya in W.O.W. 9 a.m. Great Subject you won't want to miss!!!!

TLC

TLC means Touch,
Love,
and Care.

The Bible is not a child-rearing manual, but it does give the basic principles we need to learn about how to be patient, encouraging, accepting, and loving in our correction and TLC of previous past with our children each day and at this point in life, of course, our grandchildren.

As we trust in the Bible timeless truths, we will "mount up with wings as eagles," because we have God's own promise ....believe according to My Word and you will live in joy.....and peace.....I think it's time we spread a little love around, as the song says, and have a lot of TLC - Touch, Love, and Care.

Reminder: Tomorrow - 9 a.m. W.O.W. Women of Worth....see you there!

Starbucks anyone????

Friday's a good Starbuck's day. I received a gift card for my birthday so away I'll go.....it's been a while since I've gone, but I'm sure I will run into someone I haven't seen for a while. Plus it's always a great place to get motivated to get all tasks done! Happy Friday to you and hope your "Starbuck's Day" is awesome!

The power of our minds

Many people spend a great deal of energy arguing for their own limitations, "I can't do that," "I can't help it, I've always been that way," "I'll never have a loving relationship," and thousands of other negative and self-defeating statements.

Our minds are powerful instruments. When we decide that something is true or beyond our reach, it's very difficult to pierce through this self-created hurdles. You'll fil your head with limitations that will frighten you from trying. In order to become a writer or anything else, the first step is to silence your greatest critic -you! Hopefully, make yourself turn your criticism into tolerance and respect and catch yourself being negative. This world needs more loving and positive people so make up your mind, which is what I have a goal to achieve....A mind to say positive, uplifting things!!!! Have a super Thursday! En-courage instead of dis-courage!!!!!

Love Seeks No Reward

When you love, you love and no one can stop you from loving. If you still love someone, just know that you love them and keep on loving! Love remains constant, an immovable reality in our lives. I think when we know we are absolutely loved at all times we live out of a desire to please and honor the one we are in relationship with. I keep these Bible verses Psalm 139:1-6 close by........"Lord, you have examined me and know all about me. You know when I sit down and when I get up. You know my thoughts before I think them. You know where I go and where I lie down. You know thoroughly everything I do. Lord, even before I say a word, you already know it. You are all around me in front and in back and have put your hand on me. Your knowledge is amazing to me; it is more than I can understand."

Mothers

I wouldn't trade anything in the world for being a Mother...it has so many fabulous memories of joys and happiness. Whenever I feel myself inferior to everything about me...I can still hold up my head and say to myself: "I am the daughter of the woman who.....had so many kids she didn't know what to do with them...so we did for ourselves and boy did we ever become self-dependent!" Let me not forget that I am the daughter of a woman who bent her head, trembling as she stated many times "You kids...I don't know what I am going to do with you." At the same time, a woman/Mother who still took the time to introduce me to soothing luxury of a bubble bath and who let me venture out on my own and that is where I found the edges of my personality rounded out as at the age of 15 went to work (walked to work) in a Drug Store where my first job was a "soda clerk"......

Even though my Mother is not with me (she passed on when I was 25 years of age), I can never escape her presence in my heart. Never, never.

I hope this has been an encouragement to those of you whose Mother is always in your heart every single day and that you'll celebrate often the glorious Mom/Momma/Mother you have now or did have! Oh, the joy of being the Mom and reminiscensing of how fabulous it is to be the Mom of two kids and the unique bond between us. I hope this encourages you to stay close in love, admiration and respect to your Mother because if you are a Mother you will reap the benefits later on passing on a heritage and beautiful thoughts of the wonderful times and again JOY of being a Mother. It's a relationship that defies a complete description. Remember also to let love rule!

Happy Sunday, happy mothering, and have a safe, restful Labor Day weekend!

Getting Focused

Sometimes it's hard to find answers just when we need them most. Like getting the "crude" "bug" or whatever it is called. I thought it was the 24/hr. but it turned out to be the 4-day! Ever been ill at the same time as your hubby...not fun! I'm up and getting focused....we have a pretty big job to do tomorrow, so we're both hoping the bug stays away all day so we can get our work done.

Probabaly the rest has done us some good - we hope! Hearing from both of our kids was encouraging!!! My husband and I felt like it came from eating some bad chicken and lingered. Who knows? But for today I feel some better. It has run "its course" long enough for me. Have a happy Labor Day weekend. C ya in Church tomorrow 10 a.m.

Organizing!!!!

I may have blogged on this before.....did I tell you I love to organize? In fact some of the ladies at church have actually asked me to come over and organize them and I have to decline.........I only like to organize my junk!!!!! I promise before the year is out I will clean out the hall closet and organize it. My daughter was looking for a baby pic of me.usually they are 'RIGHT THERE' - well this time they weren't............and blankets....why do I keep so many? I would love to have a closet that if you open the door and you don't see it right there.....pardon me but it ain't there!!!!!

I will give my self some credit...I organized the den closeet...it has Christmas stuff in it so whalla.....that's the only place you can find Christmas and gift wrappings! DONE!

And my office area is pretty organized so far........I need to do a scrapbook of my birthday so that pile can get done.......oh, did I tell you I got the most gorgeous cards I ever saw in my born days???? WOW!!!!! I am blessed! And my three bouquets of flowers have finally seen their days...but they are magnificent.....our daughter got me one! What a day I had!!!!!!!! Or should I say week!!! Our son got me the neatest thing (besides other things) an egg boiler....he got it in Japan his wife said....it is the gadget of the century!!! It is soooooo awesome and boils egs QUICK!!!!

So back to organizing! Drawers with shirts and jeans in.....oh good grief and closets............it's a good thing I live about a block from Goodwill Industries because away we go with old closet clothes not being worn!!!!

Have a happy Thursday! 'nuff said about organizing...you have to be in the mood! And today I'm not because of a "bug" I caught this week...ugh! And my hubby has it also!

Great, Phenomenal, Fabulous!!!

Out of the 40 invited, 40 came!!!! WOW! What a fabulous birthday celebration I had at church and with family! I hope we all got what we wanted out of it...FUN!

I'll have a kazillion thank you notes to write but this shouldn't take long.

I am appreciative!!!! If you had a part I know you will know it was phenomenal and great! Our daughter did a marvelous job keeping my Spirit up! WoW the comments she made about me.....I will always charish and remember it!

Remember: Always let love prevail and show someone you love them.....we need it. I know I do!!! I am the most grateful person alive right now.....and blessed with many, many gifts! I hope you have a happy day! Sorry I haven't blogged for a while.............tooooooo many other things to do...but I'm back now!!! Whoopeee!

More On Love

What's wrong with saying "I love you." I've been known to say it to some of our church members. Question: Must I love other people? I believe we are commanded (in the Bible and this is where I base all my facts) to love one another. The song "Love makes the world go round" is always on my mind! I claim John 13:34-35 "I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples."

I don't see anything wrong about saying I love you.....I see the right of it. I believe it's my Christian duty because being a Christian comes with certain expectations. One of them is that we will love others. Our Christian conduct is proof of wheter we love each other, and loving each other is proof that we belong to Christ.

What a re some special things that come from a loving relationship?

Proverbs 10:12 - Love covers all offenses.

I Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up.

The gifts that come from love are many including forgiveness, patience, kindness, love for truth, love for justice, love for the best in a person, loyalty at any cost, and belif in a person no matter.

For my birthday this week I have had many people that have been an inspiration in previous years and I have ended the phone call with I love you and they with me.

As the song says, "Spread a little love around........" Why not, it sure feels good to know people are that valuable! They are to me!!! And if someone doesn't like it; they are jealous because they withhold love and need to be more loving, kind, and patient. Someone asked me what I want for my birthday? I said "Love" and they said "Hey that's a great gift - we all need it." Everyone needs love. Trust me.. it makes a difference in my life and your's also, if you'll just love.

A Super Day

Great is the Lord and great is His faithfulness, love and mercy!

I'm having a superb pre-birthday week. Wow! Thanks everyone!

A True Friend

......is on call 24/7.

Friends get you through bad times and help you enjoy good times!

Right now (I love) just talking on the phone with my friends. I like to find out what's going on with everyone so that when I go back, I'm not compltely out of it.

A friend is an inspiration to me.

Friends are important because you know they are there!

A friend recognizes your mistakes, but doesn't keep count of them. ....is there to forgive and forget!

Friends are not friend if I cannot trust them. Especially is someone tells me they said something behind my back!

A friend will defend you even if you're wrong - because anyone can defend you when you're right!

A friend will not do something purposely to cause strife between my husband and me.

In your heart you possess the key to friendship; nurture it well.

The Week Of All Weeks

......looking forward to a week of all weeks..............my pre-birthday week!!!!
My husband has "soft-cuddled" me to remind me it's hard for me to receive because I AM A GIVER............... Back to the subject of "receiving" I begin the week, having already received an awesome gift from a friend of mine (by the way there were 4 gifts inside the wrappings) so beginning with gift #1.........I am proud to proclaim that I received them very well and with much appreciation. (I will admit, I was thinking about getting her a gift all while I was opening all of it.....) ooooops ....I'm allowed one mess up.....just kidding.......It's always been hard for me on my birthday because my Mom passed away on the day before.

Will this week be joyous? Absolutely....I'm looking forward to a great Church Service at 10 a.m. today; Q&A with a super lunch.....and the week of all weeks!!!!

Great Comment!

.....from one of our first ladies...Eleanor Roosevelt

NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.

Let that one marinate.

Love, love, love it!

See ya in church tomorrow...........Q&A afterwards also!!!!!
In the meantime, make Saturday a good day!!!

Love

Must I love other people? What if I don't want to? was asked to me.

John 13:34-35 - I am giving you a new commandment; Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.

We worship Him and praise Him for His love to US.

Love helps us to stay focused.

I'm late with my blog today.....I was up at 4 a.m. serving breakfast to a gentleman in our church going on a trip by air......My husband, him, and I ate a fabulous breakfast which I cooked (which he wanted) of french toast, egg, toast and bacon. I hope your day has gone well with lots of love and kindness shown to all!!!!

Now I may be a tad bit late for our date tonight because I have to find a song to sing that my husband has requested by him and me! Enjoy whatever you are doing!

Hope is so Encouraging!

Our daughter Directed "A Christmas Carol" by Charles Dickens.

The play in essence said "Reflect upon your blessings, of which every man has PLENTY, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some." Hang on to hope!

You can't drive into the future if you're looking into a rear vision mirror!

One more encouraging thought: Hope is what happens when you first see a light...just a distant, small star in the darkest of night!

Happy Thursday!

Encourage Others and Change Their Thinking!

Everyone needs encouragement. And everyone-young or old, the successful or less than successful, unknown or famous who receives encouragaement is changed by it!

As Mark Twain said, "One compliment can keep me going for a whole month!"

A word of encouragement from a teacher to a child can change his/her life!

You never know when a moment and few sincere words can have an impact on a life!

Help people gain courage!!!! and then see them go on to change the world!

Yesterday I spent approximately three hours with a lovely lady who is 81 years (young) and what a blessing and encouragement she was! Oh to live my life like her's.....wow! I couldn't even describe how uplifting she was! What an example of a lady that loves her family, her job (yes, she is still working) and such a joy! What an encouragement to pattern after. I think we have lost the old fashioned of learning from the older women who are dynamite, fabulous love and encouragement. I pray I'm like her when I am that age! Thanks Mildred!!!!!

Where Is God In Time Of Crisis?

Psalm 46:1-2 - God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear.

God does not say He will always prevent crisis in our life - we live in a world where not so good things happen. But God does promise always to be with us, helping us through ANY crisis.

Call upon Him. He is there, ready to give comfort!

Yesterday's Victories!

Okay so I'm up borrowing on yesterday's victories....we had a full house for W.O.W. and what enthusiasm from everyone!

That's awesome! I'm sorry some missed out, because it was the best yet!! Just let go and let God have His way! It works out so much better!

I hope your week is extraordinary.

Letting Go

....that's the topic............
don't miss today's W.O.W. Women of Worth.....we will be meeting today in the back of the Sanctuary. See you there..................9 a.m. There will be pleanty of coffee....and fun!

How To Encourage Someone

Wanna know how?

Come to W.O.W. Women of Worth at Lighthouse Church in the morning and the time is 9 a.m. 30 minutes worth of trememdous ways to "Encourage" & "Let Go" - To Give Courage to yourself and others!!!!

See you there.........and have a terrific day!

My Favorite Blogging Subject

Prayer

Prayer is an act of humble worship in which we seek God with ALL our heart.

Prayer often begins with a confession of wrongs.

Prayer is asking God for guidance and waiting for his direction and leading.

Prayer is an expression of an intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father who makes His own love and resources available to us.

Does God always answer prayer?
I John 5:14 We can be confident that he will listen to us whenever we ask Himf or anything in line with His will.

The Priest in I Samuel said "Let's ask God first."

Take time to pray and please thank Him for all His provisions!

Yea - tonight - Fright Night Date Night!!! : )

Looking At Life

As I write, looking at life so scantily touches upon the magnitude of this ever-demanding, top-level priority.....I've been a mother for 37 years and am now the grandmother of two precious tots. It's true that if you have children you are a mother forever. For Life! Ages and stages change. On and on the ripples of our Godly influence stretch, days, weeks, months, years, decades ebbing their way. The impact of mothering is unmeasurable. Raising our children was so rewarding and now being "bonding" friends with them is incredible.

So I beseech you, Moms, give mothering all of the passion and purpose it deserves and requires to be done well. Then all the days of your life will be days...and decades...of passion and purpose! Enjoy your Thursday! And while you're at it, make someone's day!

Truth

Who determines truth?
II Samual 7:28 "You are God, Your words are truth."
Only God determines absolute truth.

Does God really expect us to tell the truth?
Absolutely unequivably! God's law clearly forbids intentional lying!

I hold up the truth in love! I've seen people conveniently "lie" or "deny" (they both go hand and hand) but still blame and to me it depends on how many people are supporting the lie! Okay....that gets me on a soapbox.....I was sharing with one of my sisters yesterday to remember how sore our bottom got from a leather belt when our Momma thought we were lying as kids????? That's something you never
forget! Yet, people still want to prove a lie and think they are right! Especially when someone won't look me straight in the eye and accuse me of a lie.....I become an extreme introvert on that one and like my Sis said; then that becomes their problem....I really don't think people who really do lie (I'll be bold about it) have lied so much they can't tell the difference between a lie and truth!!!

I do know as a word of encouragement, the Bible says "The truth shall set you free!" So come on always be truthful and you live with a conscience that is loving, truthful, and respectful to those around you. I hope your Wednesday is happy!

I'm still figuring out how I can get you to subscribe to my blog....so far I do not know how as I know many of you have replied to subscribe.....so please be patient with me......I need to find the answer and I promise I will know soon!

Innocent Precious Grandchildren

For those out there in cyberspace who are Grandmas...I have a few encouraging words to say to you. I just finished having our Grandkiddos and looking into their precious faces reminds me how very innocent they are especially because they love me unconditionally. They trust me and I trust them. Our grandson lost his two front teeth after we left from taking them home and he called me to share it with me. He knew his Grandma cared and was concerned because he bit down on a chicken piece yesterday and it made his tooth "more loose."

I have two grandchildren and for each I hve a golden charm in my keepsake treasures. Each night I look at them and for each day I say a loving prayer. To show a child what has once delighted me, and rediscover my pleasure in their interest; this is the great happiness of being a Grandma!! Someone has said, "A garden of love grows in a Grandma." Truer words have never been spoken. Thanks kids....you are both adorable, loving, and so much fun!!!!

Humility

What is true humility?

Humility is not thinking too highly of yourself!

Matthew 18:4 Anyone who becomes as humble as this little child is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven. Humility is childlikeness.

Humility is gentleness.

Humility is not having to prove yourself and allows us to take advice.

Humility means accepting the authority of those who are over us.

Humility means thinking of others as better than yourself!

Most of all, humility opens our eyes to see God at work in our life.

God honors and exalts the humble! It strengthens our character - it is for our own good.

Most of all, humility leads to wisdom!

I think humility is admitting our mistakes and just be meek enough to say hey I messed up. In other words being a bigger person!!! Be a part of the bigger picture!!! I pray to be humble as I know the Lord can lift me up to higher levels of living....all the happy things that eliminate stress....just be humble and want what's best for others!!!!

Success

Success is always something you have to recover from!

When I was in High School and College, they would say "She's high-headed; she thinks she's smart." Especially when being very successful.

I'm happy when people are successful. it's aweful to think they don't deserve it! They do deserve it!!!! Trust me, a lot of blood sweat hard work and long hours and fulfilling their dream and goals is what made them be successful in the first place!

God is good! He's giving us a successful ministry for His honor and glory!

If you don't already have a church home, please come to Lighthouse Church at 10 a.m. You're find a warm welcome, great music, and a relevant message! No one will pry into your business, but will be glad you are there!

Excuses

I hope this blog comes across positive.

Genesis 16:5 Then Sarai said to Abram, "It's all your fault!"

In Exodus 32:24 Aaron's lame excuse for making an idol - something expressly condemned by God - was that it just happened! How often we do the same thing, blaming our actions on circumstances beyond our control. But we are completely accountable for ALL our actions.

What excuse do we have for not putting others first? That's what life is all about to me. And that's where I get my joy. There's no excuse for withholding love when you have it to give.

'Nuff said.....I am going to have a fun day today with two of the most marvelous, adorable, well behaved, awesome kids in the Universe......our grandkids!!! See ya in Church tomorrow!

Planning Ahead

Planning and foresight will help us prepare for danger ahead so that we can avoid disastrous consequences.

Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in the Lord with ALL your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will direct your paths."

Oh wow, do we need to be reminded of that!

And in planning, remember other people are involved, so consider each one and what they have to say. I am definitely a planner. Nine times out of ten, when I plan the music schedule for Sunday, it's always goes right along with my husband's topic. I'm in one room planning music and he's in the other studying; neither one seeing what the other is working on....and it always comes out that we are both of the same mind, and subject! That's awesome in my books!

Speaking of planning, I am planning such a super time with our adorable grandkids this weekend! ....or is it.....they plan me!!! That's ok too!!! : )

Jealousy

Wy is jealousy so dangerous?
Proverbs 14:30 A relaxed attitude lengthens life; jealousy rots it away.
Jealousy brings decay to our life because it causes us to focus on anger and bitterness.

Proverbs 17:4 Anger is cruel...but who can survive the destructiveness of jealousy?
Jealousy tears families and friends apart.

My own opinion about jealousy is truly it is destructive!!! Just be happy for someone else getting great things or happy things! Forgive someone you are holding a grudge against. Jealousy sticks out like a sore thumb and it makes me not even want to be around that person. It stinks! You can smell it a mile away! The way I note that women get jealous is no comment when you try to connect and communiate with them.

The encouraging attitude to have is just be glad for the other person; enjoy their getting something when you don't! It shows so badly in your attitude when you are jealous and truly does tear families apart! Share their joy! Get rid of jealousy.....it's so unhealthy!

My birthday is coming up and I've had friends call already to rsvp...oh, I can't even begin to say how happy they are for me and just can't wait to see us and ENJOY my big day...that my dear friend is happiness, not jealousy!!! I love it...someone else being so happy for me!!! Have a really great Thursday and please throw out the attitude of jealousy!!!!! It's not becoming to you!

Encouragement Gives Us Hope

Model optimism!

Optimism is contagious.

Communicate optimism!

Everyone needs a sense of significance.

By giving tasks that make people feel like they are a part of their own solution!

Keep hope alive!

If you know someone who is in the middle of a difficult situation - a long illness or a period of financial strain - your words of kindness, love and your confidence in them; your ability to lighten their load brings hope into their life!

Come on - we all can offer hope - because encouragement changes everything! Happy Wednesday and keep growing a positive attitude to improve life for yourself & others!

P.M. Blog

I got busy playing and walking our dog, Pixie and just jotted my memory re: my blog. Pixie is so smart, that I can point to something now and she knows what I mean. Who says dogs don't have keen minds? She sure does!!!! She's loves to go for a walk! She has always been an inquisitive minded precious dog!

I hope everyone saw the NBC poll that was taken: Just in case you didn't:

86% to keep the words, IN God We Trust and God in the Pledge of Allegiance
14% against

[That is a pretty 'commanding' public response. ]

Yea!!! This is awesome! To leave God in........victory, oh victory! Yea!!!
I didn't get a chance to get in the poll, but if you did....THANK YOU!!!!!

500th Posting!!!!.....some great thoughts today!

Wow! Today is the 500th posting I have actually given my take on and published! That must be why I'm up early to celebrate! ('jez kidding)....some morning just begin earlier and this is one of them! Guess it was meant for me to get caught up on my reading. Just let me encourage you today. Think kindly of someone instead of always thinking negatively! This world needs more positive people! People who care about the welfare of others. I know God has truly given us two kids (are they called kids when they are grown adults???....hmmmm) Both of them have communicated with either me or their Dad before the week begins and that's so appreciated! It is so amazing that they take time out of a very busy schedule and check in. I am so moved to get plenty of rest and keep on, keepin' on, as we used to say when we lived in California at one time!!!

And those are my great thoughts, though they possibly may be random....how about you? Hopefully your Monday will be happy. I know mine will be thinking about blogging 500 times! Wow!

Yea - It's Sunday!!!

I know I've blogged this title before......but I do LOVE SUNDAYS....a time to worship God....a time to hear the Word, a time to fellowship with all.....a time to just be sacred, I guess. I love just being me and this is what our church does for me....of course the people are wonderful....so put on your duds and come on out!!!! Just be YOU at our church. We are relevant, right in the then and now!!!! You will find a friendly warm spirit and as someone put it "a loving church." So come on out today and stay for Q&A.....it's a time when you can ask my husband (the Pastor of course) any question that is on your mind...you're be surprised at some of them...very transparent.....and sooooo good, so we will see you then.....remember services begin at 10 a.m. until 11 only.

Gotta go walk....our dog, Pixie...See ya.

Take Time Out To Smell The Flowers!

I've been blessed with beautiful flowers since I got back! One of which was a dozen yellow roses from my hubby........take time out to smell roses. It makes your day! We have a baby rose bush in our front yard but this year due to the heat, there aren't s many in bloom.

I also received another bouquet of flowers from a beloved church member! Oh, they are all kinds of flowers, but yet smell fabulous!

Have fun today. Saturdays are always fun for me. We practice our music, and prepare for Sunday......God is good to give us such an amazing teamwork effort!

See ya tomorrow....10 a.m. In the meantime, please take time to smell any flower. & while you're at it - send someone flowers!!!! We sent my mother-in-law flowers as her 86th birthday is Monday. She always enjoys the lovely bouquet. I also sent flowers to a friend who did something great for me while I was on vacation. What's really neat is our granddaughter will go out in the yard and find a flower to give to me. Look for the great things today like smelling lovely flowers and don't be disappointed. Look for joy and blessings!

Encouragement RE: Doubt

I had a lady ask me this week "Sometime I find myself doubting God and my faith, nd I feel ashamed. What can I do?"

A Bible answer would be - both David and Peter struggled (as our Pastor has been teaching on II Peter at this present time).....with doubt. Both men recognized their weakness and humbled themselves before God, and God used them. God doesn't mind doubt as long as we are seeking Him for help with our doubt. God gives us plenty of evidence to believe in Him. Doubt comes when we ignore all the evidence. And when doubt turns to disbelief, we are in danger of ignoring God altogether.

John 20:27 says "Don't be faithless any longer. Believe!" Doubt can be healthy or destructive, depending on how we use it.

Use your doubts to learn about God and to make your faith stronger! Short and simple: Feed your faith and your doubts will disappear. Have a happy Friday. Sunday is Q&A after church. See you there!

What is Prayer?

Psalm 38:18 "I coness my sins; I am deeply sorry for what I have done.

Prayer often begins with a confession of faults. Through prayer we praise our mighty God!

Our prayer must be accompanied by a willingness to obey with our actions.

It's a promise from God. I Peter 3:1,2 "The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and His ears are open to their prayers."

I journal my prayers. Daily I pray for our immediate families; each one individually, and for my other families; our church families; the President of our Country; safety, basic needs, and lots of praise for health, strength and an encouragement to all I see. Have a blessed Thursday!!!

Encouragement for Lonliness

Hebrews 10:25 - Let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of His coming back again is drawing near.

Awesome plus!

God never intended for us to be alone. He has promised us that He will always be there. Nothing can separate us from Him. He intended for us to have human, as well as spiritual relationships.

The best way to avoid loneliness is to get together with others. Call them; JUST DO IT!

Kid Day At Church

Yesterday was cool!!!! It was "Kid Day" at church and the 5, 11, and 12 month olds were absolutely adorable! When the 11 month old darling girl was recognized, the 12 month old precious boy clapped for her! I will never forgeet that! What an encouragement to see parents and grandparents so proud of their kids. And I don't blame them!!! For the love of kids....just wonderful!!! Make Monday a good day!!!

Beautiful Flowers!!!!

I am blessed. So far since I got back I have received several bouquets of flowers. My husband started out with a dozen yellow roses. My favorite!!! And the rest - friends who missed me..........I am so appreciative. My daughter started it with a dozen of magnificent roses before I left....now I'm just so grateful for the fabulous encouragements!

C ya in church! I'm soooo excited about being back!!!!

Get Focused!

.......the "To Be Dones"
.......the thank you notes for all the gifts given
.......spread encouragement!
.......our Date Night was extraordinary!!!
.......my husband is SUCH A JOY!
.......remember W.O.W. Women of Worth is tomorrow - 9 a.m. sharp! Wake up and smell
the blessings! Bring someone with you! Pray for those in need!

Encourage - Give Courage

I came back from vacationing at our fantastic daughter's!!! - talk about ENCOURAGED! A dozen yellow roses from my beloved husband! Another bouquet of flowers from a devoted family from our church.......lots of cards....our home spotless from my hubby and a 2 dogs that are so aware that I was around another family dog....our new grand-dog, Clementine, who is is precious, precious, precious!

It has been tremendous to have such welcome back!!!! I'm grateful I had the "courage" to go and of course cannot even begin to explain what a marvelous time I had. Our daughter treated me like a Super Queen!!! It's hard to come back down to tasks at hand, but I know and appreciate everything being so encouraging! Make it a great day and encourage someone today. You'll be glad you did!!!!!

New Look! Yay!!

Awesome!
It's totally amazing what you can do to change the look....everyone knows I've been with our daughter.....well.......on her fabulous Apple laptop, we looked at my blog. In the speed of lightening, we changed to a new layout. After all.....great vacation....and a chance to start over with something new!!!! And there will be more changes to come!!! Yay!!!

ENCOURAGE - to give courage....I'm so into encouragement, believe you me!
Hope you like it and you can even subscribe to it. I'm very appreciative of our son giving me encouragement to put my blog in....and then the gratefulness for our daughter being so talented and super encouraging! I am encouraged very much! Okay...now pass on this new look to one and all!

Faith Is the Only Door

I've been wanting to blog on faith for a long time. My faith is in Him and I hope your's is also.

There is only one door into Heaven; that door is faith. There is only one ship that sails for the skies; her name is Faith. There is only one weapon with which to contend with opposition; that is faith. Faith is the first step; faith is the second step; faith the third step; faith the fourth step; faith the last step. We wenter the road by faith. We contend against adversaries by faith; we die by faith; Heaven is the reward of faith.

Faith soars above the mountains of uncertainty and utters a confidence and assurance in our Lord God. He has a precise way of tunneling though, going over and around, and finding the answers. We must give Him our unconditional trust.
F - forgetting
A - all
I - I
T - trust
H - Him!

The Bible says "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Hebrews 11:1 Bottom line: Faith in the negative comes from worry. Faith in the positive comes from unconditional trust in God. The most difficult part for me in putting faith into action for answers to come is when I must completely turn all over to God and take my hands off. I'm a doer, incredibly stubborn; I don't give up easily when I have a sense of direction from God. But what often comes is a time when I hear God say, "Hands off and let me." It is at this point where I learn to actively put my FAITH in Him for helping and actively trust Him to fight the battles as I learn to sit back and go along for the ride!

As I close this Epistle on FAITH....I do want to add; I cannot imagine a day without blogging, but as this is our daughter's fabulous birthday week -- she is definitely first on the agenda - and I make no bones about it --- she is #1 in my priorities.......so I send much love to one and all....and say Happy, happy 4th of July!!!! .....I'll be posting at a later date.......C ya!

Just for Today. . .

Good habits are purposefully formed. And that's what you want to do today....and every day...form good habits, even (and especially!) in the area of caring for your home. Why? Because what you are at home is what you are. So....

loving your home for an entire week, fussing over the people you love and the place you love for seven whole days...tending to the little touches that transform a house into a home!

...and those are my tender, loving, caring thoughts today.....c ya in W.O.W. 9 a.m. or Worship Center at 10 for the a.m. service.

Gratitude Archive

Most of you know I DO Carol's Creative Cards. I have created a "Gratitude Archive"
Whenever someone sends me a note of thanks for something I did or said, I save it - and I put it in a place where it can easily be retrieved. I collect these notes in a box and take them out and read them when my spirits need a lift. If you (or me) ever have a day when we cannot remember anything good we ever did, or anyone who ever appreciatedus, just take out of the gratitude box a card and spend a few moments absorbing it.........reminding us of our worth!

Speaking of worth, W.O.W. (Women of Worth......WOW also spells Mom upside down) is tomorrow morning at 9 a.m. Come on ladies....you can do it...9 a.m. is not too early! Also, 2nd & 10 class taught for the Men is also at 9! C ya there!!! W.O.W. Subject: "Have you ever tried to harm yourself?"

Intentions

There are many ways to "set" an intention. You could stand on a mountain top and profess your resolution to the trees and sky around you. You could write down some positive changes you want in your life. You could wash your hands in a basin to affirm your intention. Or you could light a candle to support your intention of achieving more inner peace. Intention is powerful in itself. It is a way of proclaiming to yourself and to others that you are committed to change and renewed vision. Think of an important intention now and affirm it. Make it a great day!

Energy

People ask me: Where do you get your energy? I believe energy begats energy! Over the years I've learned to focus my energy on the present, to be fully aware of what's happening in every moment and not to worry about what should have happened, what's going wrong, or what might come next. Yet because I give out so much information and absorb so many people's stories every day, if I didn't find a way to decompress, I'd be totally ineffective - and probably a little crazy, too.

Take care of yourself so you can better care for others is an idea many women I talk to still can't embrace. Keep a gratitude journal --- energy will come rolling in - be grateful. Trust your husband that he is phenomenal in all ways! That will drain your energy if you are always thinking about how to make him live his life.

I'm not real sure I answered the question where do you get your energy? I guess I can say - I don't dwell on drainy things.....always looking at the good in others and the love that comes back to me. Putting positive thoughts and happy thoughts into my mind......being able to be grateful and not carry grudges. .....some day I'll blog more on this question. Have a great Thursday and make someone's day!!!!

Ancient or Relevant?????

Obviously, you can tell I'm an avid morning person. This morning I went out on the patio with the adorable, precious dogs and we were having fun. (I'm talking about very early) When I came back in, I heard the vivacious dog barking a lot, like a cat walked by or a person....who knows. (My husband says it could have even been a leaf blowing a way by the wind!!!!)

So, as quickly as daylight approaches, I note with interest our neighbors were tp'd.........I thought that was an ancient ordeal (what else would it be called?) Well, it is kind of funny.......they did a good job and the tp is rolled out in a form of tic,tac, puzzle in neatness. It must be more relevant than I thought; because those neighbors have been tp'd at least four times this year alone! All I can hope for is that the sprinkler system doesn't come on or it would be gross trying to clean up that mess!!!

Never a dull moment in my life....life is full of fun, that's for sure!!! Make it a good day!!!

Please YOU!

How much of your life will you have to consume before you can please you?

Every day, passion speaks to us through our feelings. That's why when you allow yourself to become anesthetized by what others think, you literally block yourself from living the life you were called to live. And as you become clearer about who you really are, you'll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around. The people who truly love you want you to love yourself. That's your great support system! Remember - every day brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, pay attention and enjoy every moment!

Trust me, I'm around a lot of self-centered person's and I know I am not self-centered, so I can enjoy things that please me and I know you can because of that fact (not being so self absorbed).....so go ahead please YOU today and make it a positive, kind, enjoyable day!

Where have all the flowers gone????

I HAD the most gorgeous flower garden in our front yard; posies, and pansies, and mums....the mums are still there but the others just dried up and died. Oh they were beautiful! (And I kept them watered...hmmmm) I am a flower addict...and they made my day going out and picking out the weeds so they could stay so lovely.
But, I'll still just enjoy the mums; rusty brown, yellow, gold, and red. I'm sure the hot summer sun just was too much for the precious flowers. I note with interest my neighbor's pansies have died also. Oh well, back to Lowe's to see what I can plant to replace them.

added happy note: Church was amazingly incredible yesterday. We had every pew filled but one! And then we had a marvelous Q&A afterwards....oh, am I in for church growth and that we are seeing! Yea!!!!Two precious babies...2 adorable little fellows; one is 3 mo. old and just a doll! And the other a little older but they have the cutest smiles I have ever seen! The family that the two little cutie pies belong to are so encouraging! I just hope and pray all who attended have a super great week and can't wait to fill up that other pew!!!! Keep on plunkin' as we used to say when we lived in New England!!!! Okay...so I'm up early rejoicing and feeling the sadness of loosing my flowers...but I also have plenty of stuff to get caught up on...make it a good day!! C ya tomorrow! & say a prayer for me as I figure out this flower delima........

Early Baker

Okay....I feel sooooo good.....I got up at 4 and made 32 loaves of banana bread for each fam in our church!

Why?

.....because they always say they love my banana bread....

.....to make their day....

.....to make my day.....

to hear my hubby rant and rave about the smell in the house from baking such delicious bread!!!!!!

maybe if someone is kind of down....it will cheer them up!!!!

C ya at 10........we have Q&A today afterwards....great meal!!!! You will love my husband's message...I've had a sneak preview...very relevant to today's events!!!!

Disappointments

The greatest disappointments in life come from unfulfilled expectations, unrealized dreams, and the only "tree" that will sweeten the bitter waters of disappointment is the Lord Himself. Only when your expectations are focused on God can you overcome the disappointments of life. He is an expert at healing the brokenhearted. Thus, your disappointment can become God's appointment to discover that He alone must be your pleasure, your desire, the focus of your heart's affection.

Cya in Church tomorrow......10 a.m. I promise you will not be disappointed!

FF (Finally Friday!)

I've been looking forward to Friday. It seems like all the things I didn't get done on MTWTh can be wrapped up on Friday. Whoopee.....plus no cooking b/c of FNDN (Friday Night Date Night).......my girlfriend read my blog and said why don't you tell where you go and what you do on FNDN? I said, no, that's the fun of it...We're public peeps as it is....why should our private life be so public??? Nay, nay, nay!

I will say, this might sound corny but I celebrate him and he celebrates me. And the first thing that pops into my head when I say that is the theme song that Julie sang in Sound of Music.... "Love Makes World Go Round," love makes the love go round, etc. I've been singing the lyrics of that song for the past couple of years. We all ask a similar question is the comfort of that song true? Can I truly get in the Love feeling that the song says and make "love go 'round?" As I continue to have conversations with women from all walks of life and the many common hurts we all share, perhaps we all need to spread a little love around. Love comes from God first and we find verse after verse in the Bible to call upon God and thank him for the love He has given us well!

Priorities/fun, fun, fun.....random thoughts

My hubby and I had so much fun last night. After our 3rd Wednesday Service, we had fun on a date.....so went to bed late, hence I'm up now, just now doing my blog. Our priorities are Home first, then Church next. We take a "Creative Dating" approach; something might be my idea and the next his. That's what makes marriage exciting. Who wants to have a life of dull-drum? Definitely not us.

Looks like storms are coming.....I hope the people who have been without electricity from the last storm have their electric on....and I hope this storm doesn't knock the power out! (We just filled up our freezer!) Have a happy Thursday!

When Is Competition Appropriate?

In my "coaching" with ladies, I see a lot of competition they exhibit and would you believe with even their own husband. Is competition good or bad? I always refer to the Bible for the answer. I Corinthians 9:24 - Remember that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize. You almost must run in such a way that you will win. That sounds "pushy" to me in a marriage. Competition can drive us to improve ouselves or sharpen our skills. Why it is not favored in a marriage is because: God looks upon us as having equal worth. Also, men and women are different. So, when the woman begins to fulfill the man's role...trouble starts. Competition becomes inappropriate anytime it causes us to think we are more important than others.

How can you learn to lighten up? Colossians 3:23 - Work hard and cheerfully at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. I think we should work hard, focus, do our best, not to beat others. Our best honors the God who created us. And......last but not least, we should be happy when ANYONE has created or accomplished something that makes them feel good about themselves. When there are eight people in a room and seven comment with enthusiasm what a great job you did and the one person did not......the one who made no comment stands out like a sore thumb.....jealous, bitter, sad looking....hey ladies that's negative and it will show up in your health! Everyone is important.....everyone works hard....everyone is happily supporting that person who has tried so very hard to accomplish and finish a project!

Make it a great Wednesday! Think of a way you can spread joy, encouragement, love, kindness!!!! Be happy someone else is great at what they do!!! ...and those are my very caring thoughts.

Daylight

I personally wonder how people still can sleep when it is daylight outside. My feet hit the floor just before daylight and then when I see it (daylight) it's gorgeous!!! At the same time, when it become very dark night....my sweet eyelids close into such a peaceful sleep!

What's on my mind this early in the morning? Being very grateful for health, happiness and amazed at how God is so fabulous and supplying just every need! He says in Philippians 4 He will supply....why should I even wonder? I'm just so thankful! How about you? Do you take for granted all the needs He supplies for you, or do you just plod along........... and I wonder if we all forget to give Him honor and praise? Each day, I say a prayer and cannot thank Him for all His provisions and I hope this is encouragement to pass on!

Initiative

......is the child of necessity. Can people be taught to take the initiative? ...Maybe because they figure the extra work will go unrecognized? When was the last time you undertook an initiative at work without being asked? Did it matter to you whether it was recognized or not? Organizations, churches are full of intelligent, motivated, and experienced people who LACK initiative. To me, it's a fire that burns with an individual. It isn't waiting to be told what to do........an innate drive! Both of our kids have super great initiative!

I knew a lady I used to work with that processed medical claims; this lady would take home manuals nd Health guidelines...hour after hour, evening after evening, reading more to find the answer to a quicker and better way. That's initiative! I'm sure the bonus she received was just the frosting on the cake!

I have to brag on an eleven year old girl at church yesterday that had initiative to straighten the basket with drawing paper and the pens that did not work! That, ladies and gentlemen is pure initiative!!! Give us more people who will JUST DO it AS Niki proclaims!!!! Happy Monday!

Happy Father's Day!!!!!

The world lost a life -
A face you can't see
A voice you can't hear
A hand you can't hold.
Memories
Some fade

Some stay
As clear and bright
As a beautiful summer sun.
They visit us...comfort us
Until the day we are reunited.
Sheer joy.
What a day that will be.......

We lost a super great person when my father-in-law passed on to glory. He always treated me like a queen! My own Dad is passed away several years ago.....but we still have the phenomenal memories and fun being around my own husband who is a fabulous Dad and our Son who is a totally awesome Dad.....and we had so much fun already celebrating Father's Day last night with them.....It is my sincere hope that all Fathers get what they truly deserve......a marvelous day!!!!!

See ya in church 10:00 a.m. There will be a gift given to each Dad. Happy Father's Day each one of you beloved Dads!!!!!

My Question: Why So Much Criticism?

Yesterday for our Date Day we chose Olive Garden. They have a scrumptuous Soup/Salad for $5.99 (all you can eat) for lunch only. When you walk in the Restaurant right outside by the main entrance is a sign with the Manager's full name and of course also reading General Manager. As we were finishing our lunch, she came over and as I looked up saw her name embroided on the Chef jacket outfit she had on.....she proceeded to say we were chosen on our bill to be the customers that get $10 off if we go on line to this site and give our criticism of Olive Garden and how we were treated. My husband and I thanked her, but told her we don't have any criticism; all service, food, etc. has been fantastic! So, as she stood and talked to us, she said that is how she surveys and manages her skills at the restaurant to improve customer service. Hmmmm.......of course I filled out the servey, but on a scale from 1-5, 5 being the best; that was our rating.

On the other hand, I can see why she wants to hear the negative because it gives her higher goals to reach. And the truth is we go in to have a date with each other and bond together after a very busy week. Also to enjoy a nice lunch....the answer to my own question - why so much criticism would make me not want to go back in that restaurant if it's that bad.....looks like it is defeating its own purpose. Oh, well, I will joyfully use my $10 coupon word....and this time devour the breadsticks which are so delicious to take home and reheat....so that's my take on restaurant surveys and gratitude for just being able to give my opinion! Whoopee!!!!!

See ya in church tomorrow. My husband has a fabulous Father's Day message...come on Dads.....you will also receive a neat gift for ccoming as we celebrate Father's Day 2008!!!

Keep on Keepin' On

Don't give up on any victory you want to live in your life! Just do some "cheerleading self talk" and say: "Keep on Keepin' On!!!!"

YOU CAN DO IT! Keep your goals and achieve victory!

Love Stays

You wake up in the morning and your whole world changes. Nothing will ever be as you have known it to be.

You realize the Lord is such a gentle shepherd....a caring and dependable guide.

He will not leave us broken; He will not leave us......the only thing in life that I have learned never changes....is the love of God. I've been trying to memorize I Cor. 13 love chapter....so remember love stays. What a terrific promise because His love is constant! my heart is so grateful, knowing He cares and loves and I can only hope you have experienced this same love! If not, contact me....I can tell you how.

Great Quote!

"To succeed you have to believe in something with such a passion that it becomes a reality."

Anita Roddick

I truly love this quote! We have to get real! Achieve your goal!!!! Don't give up! Your passion will become a reality!

I'm excited about reaching the goal of "filling the pews" and having more attend Lighthouse Church! That's what it's all about....that is definitely a passion with me! Have a great Wednesday!!!

Moving Right Along!

Starting on Projects and then FINISHING them!

The day goes by altogether too fast!!!!! I almost get to the finishing point and get interupted. But, that's okay because it's fun instead of getting in a rut!

My mind goes a mile a minute when I organize. But, having a mind set to throw things away is super!!!! Out of sight, out of mind...if you haven't used it for three months (volumes of "stuff" like paper work, coupons, etc.) throw it away!!!

So, I am moving right along........I'm still doing a study on Proverbs and right now my brain is fried trying to memorize the 3rd chapter of Proverbs. I love Prov. 3:5-6trusting in the Lord with ALL.......great promise!

Added Thought:
Every single day I know I go against the grain so to speak. Having a blogsite called "Carol's Caring Thoughts" when unfortunately society dictates don't care! And believe you me, I see it every day that people don't care. Well, I do; so I love blogging and sharing what's on my mind and I'm so grateful when our Son set it up for me, the title fits me to a "T" .... I will never stop caring - it's like people who LOVE TO run - they will never stop running.....or people who collect things or love to travel. I love to care.......and please don't ever stop calling the church's 24/hr. prayer line because that is where my care begins (except for a new day!!!!) Make it a Great Day!!!! Happy Tuesday!

Pics!!!!

Victory!!! As many know, I love Outreach...because I believe in a church not becoming stale, but growing more families, and more people!! I've been calling approximately twenty people on Saturdays....it finally happened! There was one very faithful couple who never miss who weren't there......plus my beloved hubby and our enthusiastic "Welcome Guy" (who definitely do not miss!) The church totally filled! We even had a lady sitting on the furtherest back pew!!! So, I took pics!

If any of y'all get a chance to read my blog......I know you are happy as well as excited! This has been a goal I have been working hard for a long time and that goal was achieved yesterday -- filling the pews!!!! Yea!!!!

It's been a rough night as I can only guess our freon as gone out on our air conditioner and I lost a ton of sleep.......I'm definitely grateful for ceiling fans is about all I can say. Make it a good day!!!! And celebrate whatever goals you have accomplished!!!!! (While I accomplish my goal of finding a good A/C Service!)

Yea - it's Sunday!!!

God is good.
Church starts at 10 a.m.
Yea, it's Sunday.......cya in Church (Shortest blog in history.....from me at least!)

That Was Easy-My Eventful Shopping Experience

A few months ago I had to go to the Office Supply Store and purchase some office supplies, of course. But this time I took our Grandson --- it's a kid's dream because he's seen his Dad's or Mom's supply of office products.....but he found this noise maker that (was annoying) when you push the button, it says "that was easy!" To this day, I have no earthly idea what happened to that noise maker, but I've had the thing go off in my head as yesterday spending at least three to four hours buying a new pair of COMFORTABLE shoes. Although, I was not about to give up....the Sales Associate at Macy's stayed with me....I have to wear "Clark's" shoes for a number of reasons which I won't go into. Actually main reason...they fit my feet and although they are expensive, they are so comfortable when I shop 'til I drop!!!!! If they are comfortable enough, I don't really drop....they provide the energizer bunny shopping!!! (a-ha)

Have you noticed Sales Associates that sell shoes, to me, must get a pretty good commission as she stayed with me. Clark's has new styles and she kept telling me, most of the ladies that stand on their feet wear a certain kind. Of course, I tried that one on....did NOTHING for me. Okay....After the tenth style (I also opted to change to Naturalizer or Liz Claiborne...no, no, no...ouch!) I chose comfort. They're not really what I would call snazzy looking, but they fit my foot perfectly! On sale for $49 - can't beat that with a stick....but the Clark's I run around in will have to be thrown away...they look like who done it, so now I will wear the new ones all summer.............SO THAT WAS EASY!!!!

The good news is I splurged and bought a purse at Target that matches the shoes exactly!!!! And that was EASY! I always look for the Sales Associate to help me...four eyes are better than two...and she found the perfect purse for me. So, I have a purse feddish (most women do) so as I go to the Granduation event today...I'll be in style...I'm sure we will have to walk a long ways to the Event Center!

I wish our Granddaughter would have been with me....because I surely did shop 'til I dropped....but remembering the visit to the Office Supply and the "That was EASY" noisemaker our Grandson found made my shopping fun!!!! And if you can't have fun, don't go.....'cause it's more fun to be blessed to buy something instead of looking at other shoppers buy!!!! So, those are my happy thoughts about my outlandish spending adventure ..... ON ME! Happy Saturday to you!!!!

Respect

I always feel like there is so very much respect shown to me from everyone and I appreciate it. It's always so much joy to be around people who are grateful and respectful. I will honestly proclaim - as each year progresses, I feel myself noticing how younger people (oh, at the Bank, Corporate World, Theatres, Churches, Grocery Store, Hairdresser, etc. places I frequent to) call me Miss Carol. Of couse, I'm married...they don't know a lot about my life, but they say my personality is efferdescent and they love my enthusiasm! And the truth is I'm on Cloud 98 because I'm in the older (cool) category with the 25 to 42 age people who constantly talk to me and ask me how I'm doing. I'm so respected. Even the other age group categories saying pleasant things to me!

It does each one of us a world of good to brag on ourself at times, so this will be the post I would categorize as "bragging on self - regarding respect" Some have said I'm definitely with the program - so that's what matters......appreciation and respect!!!! This is going to be a very busy day, so I had better get my own day started and tackle each task with vim and vigor!!! Have fun - Be Positive - it's Friday!!!!

Embrace Your Distinctiveness!

We received six High School Graduation Invitations (or are they called Announcements?) this year. I have enjoyed so much having a part in congratulating each one and to admonish them to embrace their distinctiveness! Many people don't value themselves because they are looking to other people to set the standards for their lives. They are living by comparison - looking to people around them or to models in magazines to tell them how they should dress, act, etc.

The truth is......YOU are the Designer's original! You are not a cheap imitation of someone else. .....or a copy....you have your own specific physical identity....genetic code, fingerprints and voice.....you are distinctive - soar high and make a huge difference in wherever you live, whatever you do! Remember God's thoughts are for you to have the peace of God which passeth all understanding! Take God on your journey. He is with you and wants to help you through any and all struggles. ....and those are my encouraging words to the Graduates....Invest in what God has put inside of you!

I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!

I actually sat in a movie (Chronicles of Narnia) the entire time:
.....did not fall asleep (my kids won't believe this....but it actually happened!
.....did not get up and miss any of it!
.....great movie!
My hubby and I had a great time!

After we returned I fixed a "Thanksgiving June Candlelight Dinner" - cornish game hens (we both had our own game hen, cooked to perfection!) (cooked the entire afternoon @ 300 degrees, so was perfectly done) with all the trimmings; mashed potatoes, gravy, dressing, scrumptuous salad (he master minded that one!) and delicious tea!!!! Fun, fun, fun! Stuffed, stuffed, stuffed!

Topper: I received a huge package sent by UPS from my Sister in Missouri...people that know me know that would not be hard to guess what it was??? Not one, but 5 chickens!!!! Come on now; you can't beat that with a stick??? A "London Fog" coat...whooopee, and a suit with a long skirt! (She went to a Church Rummage Sale....: ) Hmmmm - Maybe the day should be called "Christmas in June Celebration Dinner".......whatever ..... I am extremely so grateful and blessed! And I hope she gets blessed for thinking of me!

Make it a good day for you! Be real nice to yourself and enjoy the process!

Power!!!!

You know what real power is? Real power is when you are doing exactly what you are supposed to be doing the best it can be done! Authentic power! There's a surge, there's a kind of energyfield that says, "I'm in my passion." I'm where I belong. And nobody has to tell you, "You go girl," because you know you're already gone!

Love, love, love it!!!!

I've always heard efficiency tends to deal with THINGS.
Effectiveness tends to deal with PEOPLE
We manage THINGS, we lead PEOPLE! I am definitely a PEOPLE person! (With a principle of caring!) .....and those are my caring thoughts.........I hope your Tuesday is happy!

I'm Definitely A Lucky Mom!

......there are so many answers to life's delimas.....
knowing someone cares enough to ask me what I've been
up to is such a lift! Our daughter is so caring. She
knows my life consists of soooo many answers to helping
women and is she is so supportive and encouraging....
..beautiful in all ways...what a fabulous
person, let alone I gave birth to her!!! Wow!!! I'm
the luckiest Mom having a daughter like her and I love
the way she gives me super phenomenal advice to not "over-
do" (she knows me like a book) and I need to hear that (be-
cause I do overdo) Ugh! About me.....I will sift care-
fully through this week which is a very busy week and
take some time to "smell the beautiful flowers" I planted
in our yard. I hope you do the same! Happy Monday!

Hang On To Hope!

Where would we be without Hope?

Here's an Albert Einstein quote: "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

That's the way I live my life......it gives me HOPE as though we have miracles happen every day! I look for them! Trust me, they do happen!

Whether you believe you CAN or you belive you can't - you're right either way!

Cya in church. 10 a.m. (W.O.W. 9 a.m.) I'm exciting about a lady I spoke with yesterday that is going to visit our church today! Yea!!!! That's what it's all about. Remember to hang on to HOPE! I hope you have a blessed day!