The Compliments Are Great!

Sure, I'll take any and all compliments! I'm not a "Go to your head" and "Super Haughty" person. In biblical terms that phrase means "You think you're higher than God!" Oh no, that's not me! But, I'm sure having great thoughts this morning over all the compliments I've received just to name a few for this week: (i.e., cards, music, choice of restaurants, peace, quiet and contentment(s), super great meals, cheerfulness, appreciation, awesome listener, fun wife, amazingly incredible MoM, Earth Angel Grandma, tremendous birthday planner, taking time to care, great friend...)

I'm accepting the compliments with all praise and glorifying to the Lord for molding me and making me a caring person who wants the very very best for others. My prayer is that He will keep me strong and uplifted that I may #1) help others; and #2 give words of encouragement for others.

See ya in Church 10-11 a.m. Give a genuine compliment today and make someone's day!!!! Start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude! :)

This Will Blow Your Mind!

And things like this happen to us all the time. . .

For those of you who are always asking me to "blog our date night"....here goes:

My husband was stationed in Japan, consequently he enjoys japanese cuisine at special times! For his BIG day (which is today, but celebrating yesterday also)..I took him to Jinbeh last night and reserved the HIBACHI GRILL. Around the grill is seating for 8 people. At first it felt like Q&A when we sit around the table at church, but as the Chef came and cooked our meal in front of all of us, and we were waiting - the Grandma of the other family (of course, 6 entire family) was trying to awaken her 9/29 grandson who is 6 now so that he could enjoy his birthday! This will blow your mind - his name was James also. After everyone discovered it was the 2 birthdays and desert came, of course everyone sang. No one would ever believe I was not the one that spoke up and as our kids always say "Mom.....I don't believe you didn't plan the birthday song!" It is the truth!!! Actually I really had fun after that because on the complete other side of the table there were kids and a Grandma! (Oh, the Grandpa was there also). The food was scrumptuous and they want you as a couple to share...where my husband had filet mignon, I had chicken and it was a blast watching the chef do his tricks. James, the in kindergarten, and half asleep, really awakened when the fire blazed, and James, the ?? shall I say, College graduate, was awakened by all the love and excitement for enjoying his awesome birthday event.....it reminded us of how well behaved our grandkids are when dining out.

The experience was great. Actually I was amazed at the price ($27 for two)...a complete 3 course meal, including a delicious soup, salad, green tea, appetizer, and choice of awesome dishes, plus we chose sherbert ice-cream.......all included. The salad was romaine lettuce and the beautiful part was the chef did such a phenomenal job grilling each family's meal.....I pride myself being organized, but I believe he has me beat!!!!


Bottom Line: Great place to go with family and friends.....looking for romance on hubby's special day......quiet serene dining room with lovely soft music in one of the other rooms would work. No complaints on this end...the service was incredible and the main thing is we loved every single second of it and went for a romantic walk on the canal!!!! Happy birthday to a cool, super great hero, "my" James! (The other couple kept saying "our" James) :) ...he's up now and this is HIS DAY!!!!

Carol's Creative Cards 2007

Good great morning!

I'm up super early to be creative.....what am I creating?

Hubby's birthday card (maybe 2...lovey one and fun one)
Thank you card (s) (5)
Congrat baby birth card (1)
Encouragement card (3)
Get Well card (s) (I think 4)

That pretty much covers a multitude of creativity, fun, and just the special, special wording that will be from my heart. In between I may mosey to Starbuck's to get some "creative spunk" on my favorite latte!!!!!

I'm claiming II Cor. 3:18 knowing that the "Spirit of the Lord" works within me and I pray these cards will reflect His glory!

Middle of the Week Super Blessing!

For a birthday present, my hubby was given two tickets to a fabulous concert with none other than Steven Curtis Chapman. (Also Sanctus Real & Bethany Dillon were there.) What was phenomenal is that his 16 year old son plays the drums and his 17 year old son plays every guitar imaginable! Amazingly incredible! Wow! Tremendous! Steven's latest songs, which he writes, are coming out in 2/08 and they are about "Living in the Moment" ...awe, ooooh, fabulous - there is not enough space or time to describe the 3/hr. concert! I'd be posting all day! Grateful to go.....you bet! One of my husband's other gifts was a total subscription to Onstar. So on Sattelite radio in the car on the way to the Concert, we listned to the latest in any and all Southern GOSPEL music (plus I like surfing the Channels)!!! God has blessed us in more than we could ever ask or deserve and gratitude for the phenomenal gifts is the main subject at our home!! It just can't get any better!!!!

I truly hope and pray your week has been a Super Blessing like our's! Being his "lovely wife", as he calls me, I reap full benefits also! How cool is that???

Surround Yourself With Loving, Caring People

Why surround yourself with loving, caring people?
they will hold you up
lift you up instead of tear you down
they don't take up your time griping
they are glad you are doing what YOU WANT TO DO THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY
bring joy vs. critize or are extremely pushy
don't mind if you cry
or, are happy
but most of all,
people who care
and love you unconditionally
aren't jealous of you
are very grateuful for you
and always watch out for your best interest
but don't suffocate you with just wanting you all to themselves
communicate with someone who really cares

That is my passion for my family, friends, neighbors, confidantes, and I hope today all your struggles will disappear this day and that you WILL surround yourself with loving, caring people.

Be blessed this day!

This Is Why I Care........I Love Living In God's Garden

I want to share this story that a PW (Pastor's Wife) friend of mine shared with me. I hope it touches your heart like it did mine.

Blue Roses

Why do I always have to be the one that starts to do
laundry and there's no detergent? I guess it was time
for me to do my "Dollar Store" run, which included
light bulbs, paper towels, trash bags and Clorox. So
off I go.

I scurried around the store, gathered up my goodies,
and headed for the checkout counter only to be blocked
in the narrow aisle by a young man that appeared to be
about sixteen-years-old. I wasn't in a hurry, so I
patiently waited for the boy to realize that I was
there. This was when he waved his hands excitedly in
the air and declared in a loud voice, "Mommy, I'm over
here."

It was obvious now that he was mentally challenged,
and also startled as he turned and saw me standing so
close to him, waiting to squeeze by. His eyes widened
and surprise exploded on his face as I said, "Hey
Buddy, what's your name?"

"My name is Denny and I'm shopping with my mother," he
responded proudly. "Wow," I said, "that's a cool name;
I wish my name was Denny, but my name is Hal."

"Hal like Halloween?" he asked.

"Yes," I answered. "How old are you, Denny?"

"How old am I now, Mommy?" he asked his mother as she
slowly came over from the next aisle.

"You're fifteen-years-old Denny; now be good boy and
let the man pass by."

I acknowledged her and continued to talk to Denny for
several more minutes about summer, bicycles and
school. I watched his brown eyes dance with excitement
because he was the center of someone's attention. He
then abruptly turned and headed toward the toy
section.

Denny's mom had a puzzled look on her face and thanked
me for taking the time to talk with her son. She told
me that most people wouldn't even look at him, much
less talk to him. I told her that it was my pleasure,
and then I said something I have no idea where it came
from, other than by the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I
told her that there are plenty of red, yellow and pink
roses in God's garden, however, "Blue Roses" are very
rare and should be appreciated for their beauty and
distinctiveness. You see, Denny is a "Blue Rose" and
if someone doesn't stop and smell that rose with their
heart and touch that rose with their kindness, then
they've missed a blessing from God.

She was silent for a second, then with a tear in her
eye she asked, "Who are you?" Without thinking I said,
"Oh, I'm probably just a daffodil or maybe even a
dandelion," but I sure love living in God's garden."

Yesterday's Blessings & A Beautiful Fall Day!

Today I'm drawing off of yesterday's blessings! The W.O.W. class was amazingly incredible! I cannot thank each and every one for coming out so early and the sacrifice you make! Fabulous Class!!! Thanks! We are definitely women of worth!

The Morning Worship was extraordinary! The new upbeat music was received real well and everyone that left made comments that they thoroughly enjoyed church!

Today seems like a day to take it easy and not dwell on anything that will cause worry, disappointment, or the whys????? Focus on what we have in common, not our differences. And, concentrate on the things which make for harmony and on the growth of one another's character. Yesterday was the first day of Fall...I'm for sure going outside to enjoy some of the leaves falling and the wisp of wind blowing them further away.

Hope Your Service Goes Well....

Those were the very encouraging words our Son left with us last night....and as we left, we both talked about how glad we are that we raised a Son who is so thoughtful, respectful, and caring toward our life's calling. What a great night's sleep after hearing that admonishment.

Yes, today is the day that we are going to "change" the order of our service, implementing many ways to get plugged into a church that has a tremendous amount of caring; a church that wants our light to shine throughout this city and surrounding towns! Where there is no pressure put on anyone to join....just attend....hear very relevant and a motivating challenge to begin Monday with an entirely different perspective and attitude on life. This is the challenge that is given to each of us in today's culture. I'm going to let my light shine in all the excitement God has given me to teach a dynamic W.O.W. (Women of Worth) class today.....I know there are many many people (family, friends, Pastors & their wife & missionaries) all over the world praying for us as we give forth the passion of applying the Holy Word...the Bible! Oh Yes, our music is the very latest in praise and worship and will bless your soul! I promise you an hour of power you won't want to miss!

See ya at 9 for W.O.W. and 10 for a Super Worship Center Service!

Just Accept Him

Sometime during a marriage, a wife will begin a small makeover project - her husband. She has the best intention in the world. A little tweak here and little fine-tuning there would make him even better than he already is. The cost is high, though. You'll end up with a husband who resists your every suggestion and who doesn't want to talk!

Unless your husband asks, and he probably won't, don't get involved with makeovers. Let him know you think he's wonderful just the way he is! I see more women being so critical, correcting, condemning or chiding. This can be so tempting because there's a store of knowledge (and opinions) so deep within us ladies. HOLD THOSE THOUGHTS! Just accept him - after all he accepts us. I thought it was so "cute" last night when I stayed inside looking and aweing over all the SALES at Cracker Barrell Store; so my husband decided to go out and sit in those rocking chairs they have on the front. (Too bad they are so expensive). Anyway, I ended up buying nothing - maybe God planned it that way. They had so many sales, I couldn't decide!!! (a-ha----yea God!)

Appreciate your husband's strengths. Send him a card....accept him for ALL the things he does for you, whether small or large. He doesn't need a makeover. If he did, he'd send for tickets to Oprah! (chuckle, chuckle). Enjoy a gorgeous Saturday. Just a quick reminder (W.O.W. Women of Worth is tomorrow - you awesome Ladies....9 a.m. - see you there!) (Refreshments served).

FDN is finally here!!!!!

This has been such an odds n' week for me. The things I had on my calendar that would happen, did not happen, and the things that happened involved a lot of opposites and many, many requests on our 24/hr. prayer line at church. Thus the Posting Title today, FDN is finally here!

Since a) I cherish mornings & b) I love breakfast served to me

We are going to Cracker Barrell for their absolutely scrumptuous breakfast! The Servers we've always gotten are phenomenal. They usually take care of weary travelers, scenic drivers, and senior citizen types very well!!! (They must truly miss their Grandparents.) :-) Of course mosying around in the gift shop for chickens on sale makes for a great topping! They must train each and every staff person to be exceptionally "nice" because it's always a great feeling when we leave to have such great conversation re: CS-customer service!

It's not fair to the new readers of my blog - so I'll say what FDN stands for: FRIDAY NIGHT DATE NIGHT. Yea!!!

See ya in Church in 48 hours! Have yourself a super FDN!! I know I will!

Beautiful Fall Never Changing Colors

Isn't it funny that when we were young, we couldn't wait to grow up, and when we are old, we reminisce on earlier years? Yet, whatever stage of life we find ourselves in at the moment, I know that God wants us to enjoy and embrace each "Season" as it comes our way. Fall....beautiful....leaves falling..so many different colors.

I'm sure there will be a lot of change as we go into the busy Holiday Season. The good news during the emotional transitions and changes? God gives us what we need for each Season of our lives. For our husband, kids and grandkids He will provide instruction, friendships and a myriad of other transitions. For me, He will provide new opportunities for service and growth! And to all of us, He gives Himself.....our ONE Constant in a changing world. I have been quoting Hebrews 13:8 at least fifty times this week: "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and forever!"

As we all watch the leaves change colors this Fall, may it remind all of us to enjoy a new Season of life and to trust our unchanging God! I'm going to take a dose of Psalm 37:1-7 for this!! CCT: Carol's Caring Thoughts: vs. 5: "Commit thy way unto the Lord."

3rd Wednesday

This will be short, sweet and to the point. :)
Tonight is 3rd Wednesday (the only Wednesday night Service we have) at Church:
7-8p.m. "Communication in Marriage" (& if you are Single..."Communication in General") is the subject since my husband is continuing with "THE MARRIAGE ENRICHMENT SERIES." (Communion will be served at the end of the Service). We both have been up very early to go to the Church and pray for a good turnout. We covet your prayers as well.

Being Thankful And Kind

I truly believe being thankful is a super huge contributor to happiness. The act of doing something nice for a stranger or friend (& even a family member) will make for super feelings about oneself. Every day I jot down three things I am thankful for. As blogged once about "Yellow Sticky Notes" and journaling my prayers, I also have napkins, torn paper or anything I find to write on to write the three things. It helps me remember the sun is always shining and to count my blessings!

Lately I've realized that it is a necessary essential awesome task to count our blessings instead of drudges! And what's beautiful is that when we begin counting, the list becomes more than three! I don't mind sharing three of my things I am grateful for that I wrote down today: 1) Thanking God for His faithfulness to me day by day and for helping all of us to become all that He desires us to be! God's tremendous grace (just when I need it); ....and boy do I need it! 2) So Thankful that I place my family, my spouse, children, grandchildren, families that live away into His care, knowing that He is able to keep that which I command to Him this day! 3) For women who call for help in overcoming emotional pitfalls. Give me words of wisdom, words of grace, that I might encourage them and build them up, dear Lord.

I know I elaborated on my Thankfulness list. There is nothing like being Thankful and Kind....As I write I am already surrendering my willful lack of ever being unkind and unthankful and focusing on how can I make a difference in showing how much God's grace and mercy causes me to care and get rid of any "walls" or "rude thoughts" that cloud my desire to enjoy counting my blessings! (& please do not purposely ruin someone's day....practice being kind.) I want to Reach Out to comfort and turn pain into joy........that is truly being KIND! I'm claiming Matt. 11:28..."Come unto me...our kind gracious Lord says...."

Piddling?

That's an Oklahoma term my Mamma used when I didn't mind (Now the word is disobeyed)! She would say "Are you piddling Carol Ann?" And, of course, the answer was always the truth, "Yep!" And, of course, when telling the truth, no "whippin'" but a strong command to get done what she told me to do in the first place!

I'm piddling because last night I fell asleep in the Emmy Awards and as usual when I get the full potential of my sleep I need, I'm up and at 'em! Some piddling I have done is moving the telephone? Why? Because I don't like cords bulging out and with the laptop, a lighted chicken, lamp cord, telephone cords; piddling remedied that problem - now I only have one cord....neat, clean looking, perfecto!!!!!

Another piddling is since it's fall, it's time to put out the fall chickens and rearrange the summer chickens. Our own secret "piddle" that gets our mind off the many, many things we really need to get done and are on our TO BE DONE list, but procastranate to the max at doing them. And I can grant you, my husband will get up and his famous words are "Oh, I like the way you changed that...that looks great!!!!" A place for everything and everything in it's place! Yep, that's my motto!!!! I may decide to change it tomorrow, but for the time being, it looks neat and our home is ready for the next Season (actually, the next time I decide to piddle.) :) What's even better about this picture is my husband will see immediately where the phone is moved! I think he has radar vision!!!! (In his sleep!!!) A-ha!!! Have a super exciting Monday! Above all else, have fun!

Beginning Each Day With A Heart Full of Thanks!

I come before our precious Lord rejoicing, for this is the day which He has made and I will be very thankful! I think of so many who cannot wake up and say that. Perhaps depression, or a down gloomy feeling, or even a home where there is hurt, or a wounded spirit. I'm up early thinking about how do I begin each day? The fact that our kids are grown and away; how are they? what are they doing? are they healthy? our grandkids....mostly what are they thinking? they have such a great way of expressing their day's events! The love flows out over the phone from all (or at least I can definitely feel it) when I talk to ANY of them.

As regarding today's events....oh yes, they will be eventful, and servitude. We're beginning a new "Opening Worship" and I'm excited as the words of wisdom, words of grace, that we might encourage each person present. We're still in our "F-ully R-ely O-n G-od" (Frog Month) so I cannot wait to see exactly HOW we have all done it?????? His power will give us victory and to Him be the glory throughout all generations, forever and ever!

So, how do I begin each Day? I've pondered that question so deeply. I begin with a marvelous heart of gratitude and appreciation for LIFE; a husband who is living, breathing, healthy, continuing to expound the Word, and give of himself with his many talents; thanking God for giving birth to two amazingly incredible, caring kids! As I look around the house with memories of them......I can only write...Great is the peace and undisturbed composure of my children, because you, God, wcontend with that which contends with my chidren, and You give them safety and ease them. My children honor, esteem, and value as precious their parents; for this is the first commandment with the promise that all may be well with my children and that they may live long. It is my sincere prayer that they will be increased in wisdom and in favor as I know they have many dreams to fulfill and goals to accomplish. .......truly a Mamma's (& Mom's) heart.

Keep a prayer of thanks today and see what happens.

I especially thank You Lord for the co-laborers with whom I will be interacting today. Give me words of wisdom, words of grace, that I might encouragement them and build them up. I continue to thank You for the many blessings that You have poured upon us all. See ya in Church! Where life will be celebrated - believe you me! (P.S. Blog is posting super early...the clock on the wall says 6:51 a.m.) :)

Does Prayer Work?

Most definitely prayer works! Just close your eyes and open your heart and feel your worries and cares depart. As you feel God holds you secure in HIS love, give Him endless problems that cannot be solved; then He will "take over" and finish the rest. We have to GIVE IT TO HIM. I know when I'm tired, discouraged and blue, the door that is always OPEN is what I call "The House of Prayer." I find God always waiting to meet ME there. We opened our church specifically for 9/11 day for people to come in and pray. It was great to see people coming by JUST TO PRAY for the safety of America.

Prayer .... oh yes....any time, any where!! No farther away than the quiet spot - to kneel and pray is always my posture; I know God is there and I place myself in His loving care. He hears every single prayer and answers each one. It might be "wait" or "why not now?" but it is His will that we call upon Him for the smallest and the largest request. The burdens that seemed too heavy to bear are lifted away. Ending the prayer with praise and Gratitude for a God who loves us unconditionally, and is healing whatever ache and pain we go through....to put it simple: My prayers say "Hey God....and Yea God!!!" Prayers avail much. I John 5:14,14 - "And this is the confidence that we have in Him, that, if we ask any thing according to His will, He heareth us; and if we know that He hears us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions (prayer) that we desired of Him."

Pray for our Q&A at church tomorrow.....after the a.m. Service. See ya there!

Music & Today's (Maybe) Activities

.....Random Friday thoughts........ music....this would take up kazillion megabytes to write about.....Yesterday I went to the church and listened to a Michael W. Smith & Rebeckah S. praise CDs! If that doesn't move your enthusiasm and soul, nothing will! I found myself really enjoying every single word and the tremendous feeling of knowing we serve a great God who is always there to take care of every single difficulty, adversity, struggle, happenstance, or whatever comes our way.....this music lifted my spirits higher and higher toward God. Then I tried to practice some of the songs on the keyboard.....that was "trying" but with some practice I should be able to play one of the songs. For this I covet your prayers......music, music, music...the answer I definitely believe. My soul has been blessed!

Someone this week asked me "Carol why don't you tell your day's activities on Blog?" Actually I do not know exactly what the day may hold; I have a friend who says "Monday...I..... Tuesday......I Wednesday.....I Hey I'm not like that...I live an exciting life, plotting along with the love of the Lord and hopefully help someone who's life is a train wreck so to speak. If not by the grace of God, there go I.....so says the Bible......if I can help, great (Plan A)....if I cannot, I will go with Plan B. I know today a MUST is to get busy and make our daughter-in-law's b-day card which I've been putting off because she is the EXPERT card maker (more like brilliant) so I'll take some time today to make a card that she will enjoy......after that..........yep you guessed it....Friday night date night....

Back to music.........Always remember to get music in your soul...so phenomenal! :)

Purpose

Knowing purpose gives our life meaning, simplicity, focus and motivation. It provides a lot of happiness and joy! Yesterday I had the privilege of showing a lady God's purpose and how well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life, fear of death, fear of judgment is one not yet fully formed in love. God clears the record with His love and forgiveness. (Psalm 32:1) He says He has good plans for us, not plans to hurt us. It always to give us hope and a good future. (Jeremiah 29:11). I always rely on the Bible for purpose, hopes, desires, goals, thoughts, so that my vision is not blurred but definitely keeping me focused. I feel like I can open it to ANY verse and find purpose.

FROG Wednesday

I hope your Wednesday is joyous, full of fun, and that you'll have a FROG Day! I'm blogging "short" today as mine has already been filled with fun. ....Since it's a bit nippy outside, I decided to have an early morning bubble bath; I dare you to try it, you'll love it! The warm bath energized me. (Stepping out of the tub, though, reminded me that our always knowing God, who is always ever present is the TRUE essence of energy!) Have a joyous FROG (F-ully R-ely O-n G-od)Wednesday! Job 1:21

9/9/07 & 9/11/01

After having an active Sunday (9th) at church, I was all relaxed getting myself almost ready for a great night's sleep and my husband had answered the phone and brought the phone were I was and said "Someone really cool wants to speak to you." Then comes this awesome, sweet, precious, cool voice that said "Happy Grandparents Day Grandma." Naturally it was our adorable Granddaughter! And I said "How thoughtful for you to remember--thank you!" And we chatted for a few minutes and she definitely had her mind focused on really wishing me to have a wonderful Grandparents Day. (Actually I didn't hear very much mention of it on the media so I thanked her wholeheartedly for remembering!) Then she put our Grandson on the phone. Now,you can't beat that with a stick! He sounded so grown up and interested in what I had been doing!! Their "cool" parents have taught them fabulous phone manners - oh, I hugged them right over that phone for the joy they bought into my life - and yes, I did sleep very well! My husband and I are definitely blessed to have the BEST grandkids in the world! Did you hear from your's? I hope so.

Now on the 9/11/01 what was I doing? I was teaching a Ladies Bible Study at a Well-Known Christian Bookstore. They had invited me to hold a 6-week class. Of course, we all stopped, stunned, and glued ourselves in front of the televisions they had in the store. Devistated isn't the word for it....Pure sickening....Today I will still be in prayer for the families and all involved.

God bless and protect us all!

Liquid Sunshine

It's been pouring down rain here for the last hour and a half. I call it "Liquid Sunshine." We have two dogs. One is mortified of thunder, the other mortified of rain. I've been up super early giving them some special stroking and hugs to help them settle down. A-ha - such peace when the thunder and rain stops to begin a day filled with tons of stuff to get caught up on (i.e. thank you & encouraging cards, VFU (Visitor Follow Up from Church yesterday), lots of personal stuff (post office, errands, etc.)

The W.O.W. Women of Worth Class was PHENOMENAL yesterday...every lady got a chance to share the beautiful part of being a female. A great crowd and every lady said they cannot wait until our next meeting (every other week); what a lovely way to start the week with such great memories! One of the highest of human duties is the duty of encouragement......It is easy to pour cold water on enthusiasm; it is easy to discourage others. The world is full of discouragers. We have a Christian duty to encourage one another. Many a time a word of praise or thanks or appreciation or cheer has kept a woman (& man) on his/her feet. Ps. 139:13-14 and Romans 12 passages on "Holy Living" was our study. All eyes were filled with tears when some ladies gave recent accounts of victorious overcomings and the need to change "old" habits. We had so much refreshments and a super time of what I call "safe place to land" and the outpouring of love that every lady gave to me as they prayed for me in gratitude for the class will not be forgotten for a long time. Next meeting, September 23, 9 a.m. Fellowship Hall...my calendar is definitely marked to be there and I hope your's is also. ENJOY YOUR WEEK and liquid sunshine (beautiful rain) as you begin this day!

Unforgiveness

Many people ruin their health and their lives by taking the poison of bitterness and unforgiveness (topped with resentment). Matt. 18:23-35 tells us that if we do not forive people, we get turned over to the torturers. It's torture to have hateful thoughts toward another person rolling around inside one's head.

My question is who are you helping most when you forgive the person who hurt you? Actually, you're helping yourself more than the other person. I always looked at forgiving people who hurt me as being really hard. I thought it seemed so unfair for them to receive forgiveness when I had gotten hurt. But I'm also helping the other person by releasing them so God can do what only He can do. If I'm in the way - trying to get revenge or take care of the situation myself instead of trusting and obeying God - He has no obligation to deal with that person. However, God will deal with those who hurt us if we'll put them in His hands through forgiveness.

The Word tells us to pray for your enemies and those who abuse and misuse you. Pray for their happiness and welfare (Luke 6:27,28) As we pray, God can give them revelation that will bring them out of deception. They may not even be aware they hurt you, or maybe they're aware but are so self-centered that they don't care. Either way, they need revelation. ...and after forgiveness, BLESS them (Rom. 12:14) means to speak well of......................depend on God to help...the benefits for forgiving far outweigh because when satan gets a foothold, next he'll get a stronghold. Be quick to forgive.

I believe there's a need to forgive a situtation or an object - the post office, bank, a certain company that may have cheated you, a car that always gives you trouble, etc. Get rid of all poison that comes from bitterness, resentment and unforgiveness. Proverbs 4:23 - "Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance...for out of it flow the springs of life. " Forgive God if you are angry with Him, because life didn't turn out the way you thought it should. God is always just.

I'm determining to forgive and I covet your prayers in this area. My husband is beginning a great chapter in I Peter today and yesterday I was out finding prospects who were unchurched to come and worship and be a part of the new series. (Of course, I wanted them to know about W.O.W. (Women of Worth) which begins at 9 a.m. today............Hey Ladies.....see you there!!!! Can't wait!!! ...I'm taking some good ole' banana bread made by yours truly...

The B-i-b-l-e

Remember when you were a kid singing "The B-i-b-l-e....yes that's the book for me?" And sang it with all the joy mustered up inside which was "loud joy?" I proclaim it's still the BOOK for me....yesterday I mosied by Barnes & Noble and glanced over the zillion of books. That seems to be the "in" thing these day...author a book. Recently I read a comment on a blog that said basically don't even think about authoring a book if you're not writing on something that catches the eye, heart, and brain!!! I'm not really a controversial person and what I mean by that is starting a ruckus over something that my Mamma used to say constantly ....doesn't amount to heal of beans!!!

Our Son got me a Bible(exactly what I've ever wanted) almost nineteen years ago; I still carry it, read it daily, and wouldn't get rid of it for the world! I can remember one year a College student needed to borrow my Bible and she never returned it! I hope she is still reading it and it is her #1 book. I am at this time "authoring a book" but I can guarantee anyone who will look up anything they want to know, it's in the Bible! And I say that with no apology, with all the gusto in my being, and unequivably the TRUTH!

Hiya Ladies............it's almost 24 hours exact to our W.O.W. (Women of Worth) class in the Fellowship Hall at 9 a.m. This one is a barn stormer....you will not want to miss it, I promise! We have a tremendous group coming and the 45-minutes passes by quickly, so see grab your coffee or tea and as we use to call it Oklahoma, COME ON OUT!!!!

Fridge Magnets

What's on your Fridge with magnets holding them up?

On mine....#1 and most important...artwork by grandkids (I should say masterpieces)
pics of immediate family...a pic of our 4 taken just before first born left to go to College. There's a really cool pic of my husband and our daughter! Of course pics of grandkids at Chuck E.'s place....."Honey-Do List" (almost empty :) ....Emergency Telephone Numbers.....At least 22 chicken magnets..my favorite Bible Verse: Jeremiah 33:3, "I love my Grandma/or I love my Grandpa" frames with the newborn pic of each Grandchild. I Cor. 13--the LOVE chapter written out; more pictures of our kids (current ones) a Magnetic board with prayer requests and my goal to bring 9 to church; A neat sign that says "A Teacher affects eternity; she can never know where her influence stops." Of course there are great tips re: healthy things to eat for your eyes, heart, and other vital organs. Believe it or not, it all looks very neat and homey and reminders that in this home is a lot of love, missing the ones who are not here (of course they are now adults and have a home of their own) and a hearty welcome to enjoy your visit!!!

And those are my caring thoughts...........have a happy Friday!

Thursday already???....some musings.....

My own Blog won't let me COMMENT...hello!! Here's the comment, Connie to your's.
Wow Connie, Thanks for your valuable comment. I remember it like it was yesterday. You have always been a blessing and a great prayer "buddy." You've sown many a great seeds!!! Blessings to you THIS DAY!

I'll find out from Google why???

Is it Thursday already???? What a fast week!

Someone said "Idleness is the devil's workshop." There's never a dull moment in my life. My husband and I usually eat the evening meal about 5-ish p.m. At 3-ish I decided I wanted some wonton soup. I figured well, the drive-through Associate will know I ordered wonton soup. I sat down to eat it in a cozy corner, took the lid off and guess what? It was a cup full of nothing but gravy. Oh, well, the craving I had for wontons went to someone else. But I did find out if you don't like making gravy, go to a restaurant (even KFC) and they'll GIVE you a cup of gravy of your choice. It's a dollar if they don't give it. Mine was a dollar. One of my great cooking points (from my husband) is "making gravy better than his Mom's." So I won't be ordering gravy from a drive-though restaurant. In fact, just the mere mention of gravy, my husband requested mashed potatoes and my gravy with the baked chicken that was cooking. Did I use the drive-through gravy??? Heavens no. Did I take it back and get wonton soup??? No, I just forgot the negative experience and went on enjoying a lovely dinner with my husband's ravin about my gravy. But, we did have a chuckle at the reason why she gave me gravy???? Speaker, bad day, who knows????? I just know that will not be the place I frequent for wonton soup. What about you? What "crazy" thing have you had happen lately?

Enjoy your Thursday....Friday's almost here! And then Sunday is closer!!!

....Blessings Came Calling On My Phone & Knocking On My Door

Monday there was a call left on our answering machine at home from one of the fun-loving ladies at our Church who wanted to have a "Carol Day." If she were to explain where she got that...I would have to give myself a pat on the back. Come on...it's not being arrogant to BRAG on oneself!!! Several years ago my husband and I helped out a Pastor and his wife in a small church and I met her there. She reminded me I had her special day and she wanted to return the favor. She asked me where would I love to go for lunch and have a "Carol Day?" Los Lupes restaurant, of course! We really had a great time! Memories....she is a very busy lady with a son whose a High School Senior + all the other kazillion things like working out, remodeling her home, has a heart for genuinely caring for others on her job and a phenomenal gift of mercy! I kept wanting to make the lunch about HER for all the things she does and she kept wanting to make the lunch about me. My spirits were really uplifted and the topper was she brought by a birthday gift last night (called first, of course, and since we were out with appointments) she left it on the porch. It was a singing birthday card that lasts until my next year birthday!!!

The song says "Everyone who knows you thinks you're really great, and yet you just get better every year - this is your day ...... This is your year!" "Happy b-day - Carol Day" I don't know where she found it, but with the card and the Starbuck's gift card inside I'm good to go for sure until next year!!!! Isn't it nice to know there are others who care so much to follow through with blessings upon blessings and F-ully R-ely O-n G-od to give them the time to others????? (That's our FROG theme at Church). She did all of this even in the busy-ness of life! Wow!

By the way, try a sophapilla with margerine and honey on it....yummy I begin this day feeling very grateful for this surprising event!!! When I returned home my husband surprised me with a beautiful bouquet of purple daisies. I hope your surprises and blessings are many today. Blessings surely came calling on my phone and knocking on my door!

Fall

Why do I always think summer is over the day after Labor Day? I guess because it feels like, especially since it rained yesterday and seemed a bit "coolish" to me. Spring is my favorite time of the year, but Fall is exciting because of the bands at Football games and all the fans yelling to beat the band. No pun intended!

I'm sending a global message to all to enjoy what FALL has to offer; a great season to enjoy Plays, Football Games, Concerts, and last but not least, (and most important) Church. My husband is teaching a series on I Peter which really has the important of everyday living/submission to authority; respect for Business Owners, respect for leaders, etc. Next week is submissiveness at home. Here's my invitation for you to attend at 10-11 a.m. where there is no pressure; just teaching from the Bible. Have a great Tuesday and I hope your Labor Day was extra special!

It's Official!!

To those of you that know me, and think I never take time to "relax" you're going to love this announcement - I'm officially taking the day off! We've been invited to the Lake and I've been asked to take my "always requested" potato salad! So, I slept in today (that's another surprise to everyone!) and have the potatos and eggs boiling and I'm going to just sit on the "dock" and stare at the beautiful lake. That is so relaxing for me. I'll be praying that your day will have all the the very things you want to do and hopefully the day will be long and relaxing for you. Anyhoo-maybe a "catch-up" day! Happy Labor Day!

Hope

I hope everyone we've invited to enjoy our "1st Annual Labor Day Blast" will come. Just our way of sharing lunch (cook-out) with others who labor so hard and a way of enjoying fellowship, friendship, and fun! I'm running a tad bit late but hope your Labor Day will be awesome!

Enjoy Life

Today is a beautiful day to enjoy life. Get the things done you've always put off...like give the dog a bath....September 1st and on to look forward to...can't wait to make a card for our son and daughter in law's Anniversary....my daughter-in-law's birthday and hubby's birthday are both in September....(can't wait to make a card for her since she is a genuis at card making)...and then the leaves falling as fall begins...fall is my very favorite time of the year! What's your favorite time of the year? Remember tomorrow 10 a.m. (See Friday's blog)..And most of all, enjoy everything you do today, tomorrow and Monday to have a great Labor Day Weekend! I know I am!! :=)