It's understanding YOURSELF.
We need to understand ourselves. How can we ever hope to understand our mate if we do not understand our own self? How well do you really know yourself? Are we able to recognize our own strength and our own weakness? Often it is so easy to see the mote in the other person's eye and yet not know we have a beam in our own. Evidently in some areas we are not conscious of our own short-comings. We may be able to deceive ourselves but usually our mate has a perfectly good image of us. If we fail to meet his expectations, then it is our responsibility to check ourselves and correct our faults.
Do you try to make your home interesting, attractive, cheerful, a place of rest and relaxation? Do you devote time, thought and study to making it what your husband desires?
Do you serve meals he likes?
Do you handle household finances in a business-like way? Are you extravagant?
How about your appearance? Do you strive to be neat, attractive, in manner and speech?
Are you a good sport? Do you insist on always having your own way?
Do you show courtesy and consideration to his relatives?
Are you willing for him to be the head of your home?
After we have tried to become better acquainted with our own personality, and understand our attitudes, then we know our personality to change and understand him!
Thursday, April 22, 2010
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