How about clear understanding? One day Mary decided her husband was not as attentive as she wished. Shet met him at the door with this complaint, "Honey, I've been watching the Joneses next door, he brings his wife candy and flowers. He always kisses her when he comes home. I wonder why you don't do that?" Very quietly he answered, "Because I don't know her that well." It is very important that we learn the value of communication in our marriage.
Yesterday I spoke with our precious daughter and she communicated she had been real busy and couldn't talk very long. Of course, that's a clue....honor her request and keep the communication short, sweet, and to the point. We all need to get the message....it's there....honor, respect and look for a clear understanding.
My husband and I were conversing about communication yesterday. Our question: Why don't people call on cell phone to enjoy friendship? There's no answer, but we both voted unanimously, it's SAD! But, then he said, "They don't care." Ooooo that one is really sad. I'm different. I'll make the call myself. I don't want to be included in that category of communication.
I appreciate so much the comments made to me on FB!!! It lights up my life and enlightens my day! I want to always communicate "encouragement" and those of you who write comments; they, in turn give me a perfect level of encouragement! It's mandatory for me!!!
Monday, April 12, 2010
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