Understanding Our Mate (Continued)

Understanding means accepting a person as he is for what he is. We are able to help each other but desirable changes are made only through patience, love, understanding and never by conflict. Accept him for himself - not the man you want him to be!

We can do far more to establlish a firm foundation by appreciation than by criticism. You must first of all, BELIEVE IN YOUR MATE. Trust him with your whole heart, confide in him, pray with him and for him, cooperate with him, shield him, (never take sides against him), cheer him, be patient when things go wrong. Try hard to understand his ways of thinking, his abilities, talents and his background. Often we are able to help him by SIMPLY LISTENING. Remember, sharp tongues and critical attitudes will only lead to disharmony and utter confusion for you and your mate as well as for your children and friends. (James 5:16) Even the most active couple whether in Church or in Social life, needs time alone, time to talk from the heart and time to listen without preoccupation or interruption. And this is the answer to understanding what a great MAN you truly have! = )