Sometime during a marriage, a wife will begin a small makeover project - her husband. She has the best intention in the world. A little tweak here and little fine-tuning there would make him even better than he already is. The cost is high, though. You'll end up with a husband who resists your every suggestion and who doesn't want to talk!
Unless your husband asks, and he probably won't, don't get involved with makeovers. Let him know you think he's wonderful just the way he is! I see more women being so critical, correcting, condemning or chiding. This can be so tempting because there's a store of knowledge (and opinions) so deep within us ladies. HOLD THOSE THOUGHTS! Just accept him - after all he accepts us. I thought it was so "cute" last night when I stayed inside looking and aweing over all the SALES at Cracker Barrell Store; so my husband decided to go out and sit in those rocking chairs they have on the front. (Too bad they are so expensive). Anyway, I ended up buying nothing - maybe God planned it that way. They had so many sales, I couldn't decide!!! (a-ha----yea God!)
Appreciate your husband's strengths. Send him a card....accept him for ALL the things he does for you, whether small or large. He doesn't need a makeover. If he did, he'd send for tickets to Oprah! (chuckle, chuckle). Enjoy a gorgeous Saturday. Just a quick reminder (W.O.W. Women of Worth is tomorrow - you awesome Ladies....9 a.m. - see you there!) (Refreshments served).
Saturday, September 22, 2007
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