Constructive Criticism................
Certainly, constructive criticism can be helpful. An INSIGHTFUL point of light presented by someone who truly has your best interests at heart can illuminate an area where you need to improve. Sad to say, most criticism is not intended to build up another person; quite the opposite. The criticism that hurts the worst is frequently undeserved and unfair. Such criticism is a reflection more of the critic than of the person being criticized.
I've found that unwarranted criticism is most often based on jealousy. It stems from a competitive spirit. You have somthing that somebody else wants. Instead of being happy for you and keeping a good attitude, they try to cover their own insecurity by being critical, cynical, caustic, or snippy toward others.
Here's the key: CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S VICTORIES! It will definitely make you become a better you! Stay on the high road....let God fight your battles.
Perhaps you hve not been shaking things off, and recently you have let the slingers get the best of you; you've been dwelling on their criticism, fretting about who's talking negatively about you or who has rejected you. You feel sluggish because your well is nearly clogged up. It's time to clear out the rocks and keep your inner well fresh and clean! 'nuff said!
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
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