Sunday, October 31, 2010

Priorities Concerning The Pursuit of Achievements

Living by God's plan should be a higher priority than personal achievement.
Mark 10:31
Proverbs 3:6 Seek His will in all you do, and He will direct your paths.

Priorities are the scales on which our love for God is weighed. We focus most on what or whom we love most!

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Let The Mind Of Christ Be In You

God cares a great deal about how we think! He wants us to be whole in our minds. That's why His word says, "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus." Philippians 2:5

Let your thoughts reflect Christ.

Let His creative ideas become your's.

Let His attitudes become your's.

Let His behavior become your's.

Enjoy your awesome Saturday!!!

Friday, October 29, 2010

Study His Word!

God designed us to have a day of praise and thanks and quiet meditation on His Word. He designed us to have a day in which we gather with others to praise and give thanks and to study His word!

He designed us so that our deepest form of restoration, replenishment, and refreshment to come closer in relationship to Him. I love it!!!!

How about you? What are you studying in His Word at this time?

My study is in Philippians!!! So full of praises!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Miracles

Miracles are visible signs that only God can perform that help us know Him and see His hand in our life.

Isiah 41:19-20 - read it.....it is the Lord, the Holy One of Israel, who did it!!!!!

Look for miracles. I do. If you have received one, let me know. I'd love to hear.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Finding The Courage To Face Change

Loving confrontation is different from argumental. Conflict is inevitable; when it arises, true cooperation seeks the highest good for all. Change may be part of God's plan for us. If so, we can trust God to take care of us through the changes. Exodus 4:13 Admitting our mistakes and sins opens the door to forgiveness and helps restore relationships. Are you ready? Go for it! Now!!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Good Model For Accomplishing Things

Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two people can accomplish more than twice as much as one; they get a better return for their labor.

It is impossible for one person to play a duet or trio. It is hard to play football or soccer without teamwork. It is hard to have a happy marriage if only one mate works at it. Two people can actually do more than twice as much as one - as long as they are pulling in the same direction.

Is it wrong to be proud of our accomplishments?

There is a healthy satisfaction from accomplishment, which includes thanksgiving to God for what He has done through us. It gets to be arrogance to think we did the deed all by ourselves. Pat someone on the back that has helped you in some way. Enjoy your Tuesday in God's protection!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Is It Wrong To Be Proud Of Our Accomplishments?

There is a healthy satisfaction from accomplishment, which includes thanksgiving to God for what He has done through us. But it is arrogance to think we did the deed all by ourselves. (I Cor. 4:7)

With God's help we can do MIGHTY things!!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Earn God's Acceptance

How?

We canot earn God's acceptance. But His acceptance is available for free to you and everyone. All we do is believe that His Son, Jesus, died for our sins so that we could be free to enjoy eternal life with Him. When we accept his forgiveness and ask Him to be the very Lord of our life, He completely accepts us into His presence.

Romans 3:27 is a great scripture for this: "Can we boast, then, that we have done anythig to be accepted by God? No, because our acquittal is not based on our good deeds, it is based on our faith."

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Happiness to Others

The Lord Himself is the wellspring of true happiness.

The more we love him, know Him, walk with Him, and become like Him,

The great our happiness.

Try it, you will like it!

Psalm 146:5 "Happy are those who have the God of Israel as their helper, whose hope is the Lord their God."

Friday, October 22, 2010

Happiness to God

Can we finite; sinful human beings truly bring joy and delight to the Lord, the Creator of the Universe. Yes, and it is simple, though not easy.

We bring delight to God by honoring Him.

Obeying Him

Responding to His love

Seeking His forgiveness

Walking daily with Him

Zephaniah 3:17 "The Lord your God has arrived to live among you. He is a mighty Savior. He will rejoice over you with great gladness. With His love, He will calm all your fears. He will exalt over you by singing a happy song!"

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Good Decisions

Yea I love comments...thanks Geneva for yesterday's.

But, for today.......How do we know we've made a good decision?

II Timothy 3;16 All scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It straightens us out and teaches us to do what is right.

You always make the right decision when you follow the commands God has given in the Bible. Also, always check your motives - are you deciding based on what you want or on what is best for others? Are you making a decision that is helping others or hurting them?

Your decisions determine your actions and your actions show what is in your heart.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Finding Strength To Go On

Psalm 46:1-2 - "God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear, even if earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea."

What does it mean to fear God?
Because God is so great and mighty and because He holds the power of life and death in His hands. We must have a healthy, reverent fear of Him. A healthy fear helps us keep our perspective about where we need to be in our relationship with God.

When is fear not good?
Fear is not good if it kees us from doing the things we ought to do. We are not meant to live in fear.

Rely on Isaiah 41:10 "Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. I will help you. I will uphold you with my victorious right hand."

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Love

Love explains itself!

The Bible says "God so loved the world....." John 3:16 Do we really believe that. It comes from God! We keep close to Him so that He can shine His love through us. That's how I get my vision is through the fact that He gives me all the love I need to comprehend that some need Him in a great way.

How about you? Where does loving God stand with you? Have you ever felt unloved?

Monday, October 18, 2010

Coffee Time!!!

It's time we take a check on how coffee are we drinking. Yesterday I had a real interesting conversation with a lady that has a cup of coffee she drinks all day...she goes to Starbuck's and gets the largest cup and sips on it all day. My question is would it be fresh all day? It makes me wonder if she heats it up in the microwave each time she sips? Oh well, to each her own!!! I drink two cups a day and I can tell it has made a difference!!!

I'm doing a study on Habakkuk and in verse 2, he says "Oh Lord how long shall I cry, and though wilt not hear." I believe we must still cry out to God and He will hear. He is always here to help us any time, hour. Rely on Him! A big encouragement to you...rely on Him. Don't let the opportunity to go by but that He gives you your strength, joy, and health. Stay close to Him and don't give up!

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Be Encouraged!!!

Just be encouraged! Let yourself have this happen.
1. Thank God you have friends who care.
2. Have a relationship with your friend.
3. What's keeping you from it?
4. Tell yourself you have a friend who cares.
5. Prov. says a friend loveth at all times.
6. Enjoy worshipping the Lord today!
7. Be grateful for friends!!!!!

My brain is fried from doing some writing on our marriage material.
Enjoy being encouraged and accept it!
Love, Prayers, and Peace!!!!

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Do You Need Encouragement?

The question of the hour. We all can say sure we do! But do we? I can promise I do. Even when I even see the word, I know I can't wait to see what God gives me to say because I know I need encouragement! Some people do not know how to give it. And that's too bad. I think that's a cop out.....try living without encouragement one week...you will be miserable.

Last night hubby and I watched a baseball game and I kept thinking oh if they just had a little bit more encouragement may they would win!

I'm encouraged by Bible verses that I find and I've been a Christian for a long time, but see them and wonder why I hadn't seen them before. I'm doing a study on I Timothy. Very interesting. Enjoy your Saturday.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Has God Been Good To You?

As I awaken each day, and do most of my praying in the morning, wonder about that question, has God been good to you? I blog with six ladies and I see their spiritual yearnings and pretty much know. But what about you do you look at God and know that He is accomplishing something in your life.

In helping people, I rely on God one zillion percent!!! Yes, he's been good to me and my biggest need is to stay on keeping mind stayed on how really good God has been to me. Romans 8:28 is my favorite scripture. It puts me in the thank you mode because I know God has been good to me; I cannot deny it! Happy Friday!!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Develop The Leader In You

I learn a lot from our kids. Seeing the amazing leadership they have. It's such a joy and happiness as a Mom as we have observed their brilliant things they do. Of course they will humbly say, "Ah Mom....." and not brag on self. But as a Mom, I love to know we raised kids that truly are leaders!!! Wow!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

What You Need To Know To Encourage People

Provide community to people who desire meaningful relationships

Be an example because people seek models to follow.

Helm them win because people want to be associated with success

Encourage someone downhearted.

Speak to their needs first.

Listen to them; they need to be understood.

Show them hope; there needs to be a better tomorrow.

Confidence because people are insecure.

Quote your favorite scripture and help them to begin reading the Bible.

This works! Let me know if you tried any and did they work?

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Amazing Grace!!!!!

Yes, God's grace shines through. Have you asked Him lately for His special grace?
I have! I received an answer last night. And yes, His grace is amazing! Like the song says, Amazing grace how sweet the sound!!!

In a nutshell: I looked beyond my worthlessness; He patiently sanded away,
And like gold did refine this soul of mine.
Cleansing me day by day!
It's definitely a witness of His great love and grace!

How about you? Have you felt His amazing grace? Tell me about it.

Monday, October 11, 2010

Attitudes!!!!!

I've seen people so happy and then all of a sudden a bad attitude will appear. I have decided to not let it get to me. I spent years trying to figure out why people bring bad atttiudes for no reason. I think some people just don't care. The Bible says "Be content." If you can't change the situation, just keep your attitude happy or stable! Have you ever walked up to someone and you weren't sure their attitude would be sour and rude? Oh, I have many times. I would encourage you to think it is NOT YOU, it's their problem. Nothing you can do to change them. They have to change their own self.

Be careful with your attitude. There's a lot of people who would love to steale your joy! Don't let them! I tried that one for years also. "Blessed is that man that maketh the Lord his trust, and respecteth not the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies." Psalm 40:4 God knows all about it; let Him take care of their attitude!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

l,l95 blog!

Let's celebrate! That's a lot of praise to the Lord for keeping me going with what He has to say about encouragement!

God bless all of us as we celebrate today and also worship the Lord! Thanks for sticking with me!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Life!!!!!! Random Writing

I am so so blessed for all he women I have known in my life who are asking me why am I such an encouragement? My look at life tells me if we are breathing we need and yearn for encouragement. Something that makes us come out of the rut or the pit and keep on going with life!

I love to study prayers. That also encourages my life. The book "The Prayers of Susanna Wesley" is awesome. Talk about busy with 19 kids!!!! When I think of this dear woman and her taxing circumstances, I can only surmise that.....there goes every woman's list of excuses for not praying in their life.

Life goes on. Find what you can do to encourage someone. I look for that IN ALL situations and it makes life happier, fun, and off of self!

Friday, October 8, 2010

Friday Night Date Night

Not tonight; we took our Friday night date night yesterday at lunch. I had done a survey for Outback and won a free lunch, including the bloomin' onion appetizer! So, I got the hamburger and my hubby got the salad. Have you had a date night lately or lunch date with your beloved hubby? It was fun. We saw a lot of executives come to lunch and had a change to meet the Propietor at Outback. When my hubby had a church, we frequented Outback, so they all said "Where have you been?" It was fun. As you know the Server always gives a loaf of bread to take home.

What have you done on your date night? I would love to hear. Have a very happy Friday and remember BE BLESSED in the presence of each other!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Blogging

Today I was introduced to a new term, blog blockers....meaning some people deliberately hold their blog comment to stalk the comments going through. This is new to me..why would someone want to do that? What is this world coming to? Would it be jealousy. Truly, I would love comments so I could hear what those of you who read it have anything to say. I blog with (regular) 6 bloggers and some of us don't get but three comments to the max. I'm not trying to prove anything like having a blog because I am writing a book. I am writing a book but I don't use blogging to get me going. I love it when ladies comment on issues and are honest that they are going through irritations or things that we all can participate in and help a person get through. We've all been through so much. My blog that I write I want to be encouraging and of course I get encouraging comments back. I checked it out with my kids and they think I fit so much better when I encourage which is what I am great at.

So encouraging it will be in my blogging. Since we took our trip, it's been hard to get back in the groove of things, but don't worry I will get there. I love your comments, so do not hesitate and I pray for you a very happy Thusday!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Women

Have you ever read of women who are addicted to a painful past? Pornography, giving their bodies to just anyone? This stuff is real. Or addicted to drinking too much.
You can be forgiven. And the bitterness it causes can go away. God is ready to set you free. Call me, I'll tell you how. Call me today. I am burdened about you and can only tell you God can heal. Wednesday would be a great day to come clean!!!
Love, Prayers, and Trust, Carol

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Love Your Home!

The King James Version of the Bible says in Titus 2:5 that we women are to be keepers at home. Other versions of the Bible translate these words as workers at home, homekeepers, good housekeepers, good managers of the household, and "home lovers."

I like "home lovers" because I believe that if you love your home, you'll do all the rest. Both you and I know that love is the world's most powerful motivator. So if we love our home, love being there and love managing it, building it, watching over it, and keeping it, then love will conquer all. No task will be too difficult and no job will be too menial.

Love will enable us and empower us to tackle it, master it, and excel at it.
Proverbs 31:29. Turn up the heat of your heart...and your passion....when it comes to God's purpose for us as women to manage our home and ask God to help you become a "home lover." I know we all can do it! Yea!!!

Monday, October 4, 2010

People Need Compliments!

For encouragement! If nothing else! I need about 12 a day and my hubby gives them. He needs a ton of them. I think it's because he dealt with heavy duty problems in the Pastorate. I'm just the person to give them because I see the pain he goes through.

So, today, give your friends and family compliments. Live it up! Be on others' help side today. I'm up early thinking of how I am going to get caught up on a week out. I know God will give me the grace and at the same time when I go places, I am going to compliment. Thank you Lord for extra grace!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

God's Amazing Grace!!!

Comes just when you need it.
Ask Him to cover you with His grace!
It works!
As Christians we deserve the grace and give Him Glory!
Thank you Lord Jesus!
We honor you!
Praise your Holy Name!!!

Saturday, October 2, 2010

I truly love to Sing Praises!!!

When our loyal friend, Geneva picked us up frm the airport here, she brought me a bouquet of very lovely fall flowers and a birthday gift for hubby from her and her precious hubby. Geneva, only God will be so praised for you taking time off work to pick us up. God is so wonderful knowing what our needs are. We have to count on friends when the family lives away or have been out of town and couldn't be available. This, really, has been my husband's best birthday. During his retirement, he has opted to do his own yard landscaping and guess who helps him....me!!! When we got back, there, of course, are tons of things to do, but somehow I just want to be a housebounder, wondering what I want to do next. Once being spoiled sure does make me just want to stare at the walls or beautiful flowers Geneva gave me and the ones in our back yard.

So I think I will just do that...why be in a hurry..just take time to praise God for all His mercies and favors He gives to each one of us. I keep thinking if I hadn't given up knitting when a friend of mine tried to teach me, I could enjoy more vacation time and knit, but I guess I better get back in the grind of things and let the Lord use me to still help couples who need a boost to get back on the same page. That's our passion now. Have you ever been in a "I can't get moving stage?" I've asked God to give me one more day to get going. I'll rely on God's grace....GRACE IS MY POWER, Ephesians 2:8-9.

Friday, October 1, 2010

Great Visit!!!!!

Wonderful!
Fabulous!
Marvelous!
Incredible!
Spoiled Us Rotten!!!
That is what it feels like coming back from our daughter's. She is such an uplifting
person and she just treated her Dad (PAPPA) and me in her lovely apartment. One entire week of extraordinary rest and places to see or eat which were breathtaking. She has two chihuahua and they are the cutest things you ever saw or would want! It was also my hub's 65th birthday and we celebrated with joy!!!
Then when we got back, the extremely crowded airport was packed to capacity and we found out after we left, they closed the airport due to storm weather. We were blessed beyond blessings to get on the plane and get here.

Have you ever been spoiled rotten?

You should try it sometime. Just let the love flow from a family member that is needed. She needed it as much as we did. It truly left me speechless when we left. Did I miss blogging? You bet, but this was worth the pampering, soothing, encouraging given to each one of us. So, I'm back and the ususal daily living. We will be back on schedule for the couples and just know that God will bless lives as we give them the right direction to go.

Blessings to you having a super great Friday and as I welcome myself back into the blogging atmosphere. : )

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Back On!!!!!!!!

Having fun, that's for sure!

Our daughter is so very talented!!! Wow!!! She knits and everything is a masterpiece!!! She is knitting a sweater...marvelous! Just fantastic!!! One cannot imagine!!!!

Just soaking it up! And blessed to have her for a daughter, the person she is....lovely, brilliant, fun, great listener, so loving!
Have a happy Saturday and see ya some time next week.
Love, Carol

Sunday, September 19, 2010

God's 4 Words for Wives

help, follow, respect, love him!

Include him in your prayer time each day.

I'll light on respect him! Ephesians 5:33 is the scripture.
Have you figured out the best time to approach him about the important matters of life or best way to speak to him?

He honors me; why shouldn't I honor him? It's inevitable! Be blessed this Lord's Day.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

God's 4 Words for Wives

help, follow, respect, love him!

Include him in your prayer time each day.

I'll light on respect him! Ephesians 5:33 is the scripture.
Have you figured out the best time to approach him about the important matters of life or best way to speak to him?

He honors me; why shouldn't I honor him? It's inevitable!
Happy Saturday!

Friday, September 17, 2010

What Makes You A Better Person?

There are high spots in all of our lives and most of them have come about through encouragement from someone else. I appreciate the fact that I feel like I'm a better person when I talk to our kids. Philippians 1:6 says "He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ." That makes me a better person. He's not going to finish the work He has to do in me. He just puts me back on the easel and keeps on constructing me to be a better person. It forces me to have a good opinion of myself.

How about you? Have you learned how good you really are?

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Bounce Back!

When you have a bad situation, bounce back!

Reject rejection, see mistakes as temporary and see that failures are isolated incidents.

Keep your expectations positive and focus on your achievements so you can bounce back!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

10 Disciplines for Mothering

Center life on the Lord.

Model godly character.

Pray for your kids.

Be there for them.

Take them to Church.

Choose your kids above all.

Discipline your kids.

Be your kids #1 Encourager

Make each day fun!

The impact of your mothering is unmeasurable. Remember how rewarding it is. Stick to the book of Proverbs because it answers ANY question you have on mothering. Happy Wednesday!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Great Look At Life With Friends!

I'm up early. Got caught up on my sleep....yea!!!

Here's a great look at life: Dear friend, one of the key ingredients of life is people....and people take time. So do friendships. To some it was just a sunshine call to cheer and encourage. For another person, with me, it is a listening heart and a prayer over the phone.

We should manage our time and our lives, our projects and our priorities. And we'll get to the social area of our life with people...with souls. Our Friend who sticks closer than a brother....Christ....Proverbs 18:24!

Nurture and manage all of our life....and one is great friendship and we will be letting that happen in our lives Friday night as we meet with our devout friends. Can't wait....always a great look at life!!! God bless them and send His wonderful love! Have you ever had that "can't wait feeling?" That's where we are NOW!!! Happy Tuesday!

Monday, September 13, 2010

My Encouragement for THIS Day!

Take the time to make another person feel important!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

God's Love

I get my love from God. He showers me down with love...always enough to give to hubby, children, and grandchildren + friends and other family members on top of that!
He constantly talks about love in the Bible. Ask Him in your prayer to understand the love that only God gives. Enjoy His love TODAY and let Him saturate you with love, peace, joy and feelings of confidence that He is there for you day and night!!!

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Looking At Reality!!!

One of the key ingredients of reality is people...and people take time. So do friendships. As I recall again the busy day detailed at the beginning of the day to the end. I want to tell you that it is wondrously busy! Each and every person who crosses my path was from God and represented a part of His purpose for my day and my life! Needy souls, needy for something.

.....a soul is touched with the goodness of God!

.....that's reality!!!

.....we made an appointment with our devout friends to come over!!

.....we're so excited we can't see straight!! This makes life a reality to us!!!

Friday, September 10, 2010

Dear God Letter

What would you say if you wrote a "Dear God Letter to God?"

Mine would be a deep letter of gratitude for what He has done to supply our needs and knowing He is always there; rain, cold, shine....any time we need him!

I'm going to take a day off of blogging and journal my prayer. I think it will be all glory to Him who helps us through all difficulties. Enjoy your Friday. I know I am going to enjoy mine!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Meet Someone Who Is Content

I have to be content. I have no other alternative. I'm up a tad bit early today. I want to get started writing on my new book. I'm a wee hours in the morning person anyway, so this should be great! How about you?

Yesterday I started my first interview with a person and her marriage concening "contentment." Interesting conversation and I learned a lot about her. Why was she "not contented?" You'd be surprised like I was. It shocked me. It was so minute and something none of us would believe. But I followed her communicating it to me. Ladies......women are not content. Why? No love in their life!!! Gotta have that love!!! That would be a debatable subject.

What keeps you from being content? I would love to hear your story.

Do you think it's a God-thing?
Do you keep your problems only to yourself?
Have you really ever been in love (contented)?

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

How To Turn Lives Around

There are peope who think seeing obstacles is a sign of maturity and insight. But anyone of average intelligence ca do that. God wants people who see a way beyond the obstacles and who encourage others to take it to turn their live around!

Encouragement is the answer to turning lives around!
Isaiah 43:19 "Behold, I will do a ne hing. Now it shall spring forth ... Shall you not know it? I will even make a round in the wilderness and rivers in the desert."

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

A Recipe for Contentment

Health enough to make work a pleasure.

Wealth enough to support needs.

Strength enough to battle with difficulties.

Grace enough to confess your sins and overcome them.

Patience enough to have some good accomplished.

Love enough to move you to be useful and helpful to others.

Faith enough to make real the things of God.

Hope enough to remove all anxious fears concerning the future.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Happy Labor Day!!!

I hope everyone has a marvelous Labor Day and doesn't even have any stress thinking about their job, etc. Keep your day positive and ENJOY!!!! See ya with a great blog tomorrow!!!!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Knowledge

Just as long years do not necessarily add up to happy living, even so successful living is not totally dependent on an abundance of learning. Solomon was the wisest man of all ages (excepting our Lord yet be exclaimed.) Ecc. 1:18 - Knowledge is good, but knowledge that does not include God leads to worry and sorrow.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Christian Homes

Happy the home where love is found:

Loyalty

Truth

Kindness

Where God is loved above all others...

The home may be spacious, great, or small,

But when God is honored over all....everyone helps together.

Christian homes give hope for the Nation!

Friday, September 3, 2010

Encouragement Makes Us Better!!!!

There are high spots in all of our lives and most of them have come about through ENCOURAGEMENT from someone else!

My passion is to encourage!!!

Who will you encourage today?

I promise IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE HAPPIER!!!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Assessing Your Trust!!

...in the Lord...how well do you manage when it comes to the trust department? Do you trust the Lord to take care of your need for food and clothing or do you live in fear that perhaps He won't? Always remember that God is your Good Shepherd, who promises that you shall not ever want...for anything! Psalm 23:1

Trust God that He will provide.We all must trust in Him, relax in Him, and enjoy the rest that trust and faith provides!

It's magnificent to have trustworthy friends! We had our devout friends come to visit with us Sunday and we are reaping the greatest blessing still and it has been four days! It was also to congratulate me for my birthday one week previous. Both of them are such a phenomenal encouragement and we cannot thank them enough! And Wow is the exciting word!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Communication

How do you communicate? Prov. 15:11 "A soft answer turneth away wrath."
Sometimes we do not know all of the trials and troubles a person experiences unless we are walking in their shoes. We need to learn early to respect the other's communication and be happy for them being happy!!!!

I want to communicate gratitude. There has been so many blessings and I am happy to Christ for supplying what we have needed. It's been a struggle, but only gratitude can reveal our hearts!

Have a happy Wednesday and I would like to pass on a communication of gratitude!

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Passion Cont'd!!!

Passion will change you!

You become a more dedicated, productive person. In the end, yur passion wil have more influence than your personality.

Passion makes the impossible possible!

Impossibilities vanish. A fire in the heart lifts everything in life.

When we find a passion we can be assured that grat things do lie ahead. What can you do to find yours? What can you do to help someone else find theirs?

Monday, August 30, 2010

Passion!!!!!

People spend a lot of time trying to figure out what makes people successful and more than anything else, passion is what makes the difference.

Passion is the first step to achievement...your desire...the stronger you fire, the greater the desire and the greater the potental!

Passion increases your willpoer. It is the fuel for the will. If you want anything badly enough, you can find the willpower to achieve it.

Follow your passion - it will change you because it makes the impossible possible! When we find our passion, we can be assured that great things do lie ahead. What can you do to find yours? and what can you do to help someone else find theirs?

Have a happy Monday!

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Sanctifying the Lord God!

We should be about the business of sanctifying the Lord God in our bodies and in our hearts (I Peter 3:15). To do this means we are to revere Christ as Lord and to hold Him in highest reverence. We are also to be consecrated, set apart, and dedicated to the Lord. And we are to honor Him with every facet of our lives - including our bodies. As Paul concluded, you and I are to "glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's" I Cor. 6:20

Now, do you yet sense the reverence? The respect...the awe....the magnitude of our body being God's. God will protect you as you sanctify our Lord God!!!

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Nurture Your Marriage

The best gift you can give your children is to love their father. Remember, too, that once yur children are raised, you will be so glad. Nurture your marriage. Make a comment if you need help on this and I will be sooo glad to help you. Both of us will. The Bible says in Prov. 31:27 that we are to watch over the ways of our household. I pray your Saturday will be saturated by love. My hubby needs me today to help him with a task...will I be there? Absolutely, unequivably!!!

Friday, August 27, 2010

Home Is Where The Heart Is

I know women who have trouble getting excited about taking care of their homes. And I know women who have writen off homemaking as a worthless occupation. Does either category fit you, my dear friend? Then please, spend time in prayer. Turn your home....and your heart....over to our wonderful Lord and ask Him for help. Ask Him for a make-over. Talk to toher women who do love taking care of their homes. Your husband will encourage you.

Whatever it takes, set about to create a Home where the heart really is!!!! Have a happy Friday filled with love, peace, joy, and understanding!

Thursday, August 26, 2010

We Should Pray Boldly!

Yes, we are humble, penitent sinners, but because of God's grace we humble sinners can approach the throne of His grace boldly and with courage so that we may receive His mercy and find His grace to help us in time of our needs! Hebrews 4:16

Just think of all the loved ones and people that need prayer. I want to pray better, don't you?

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Key Ingredients To Life...People!!!!

Are you a people person? Some people remove their self from being called that.
I can honestly say I miss the Ladies at church - just to hear how their week was and find out how their life is going.

We have one very devout couple who are very close friends that we'll be seeing Sunday and I can't wait. The key ingredient to life is people! May God bless them and each person that reads this blog.

Our God reigns!!!!! Talk to ya tomorrow!

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

You And Your Schedule!!

So, like our Lord, you must create a schedule and develop a routine. The reason Jesus was so unhurried in His schedule was that His schedule was based on God's priorities for His life. So make a schedule and keep it....determine God's priorities for your life and develop a schedule that is centered on those priorities.

Such a schedule will certainly simplify your life. Establish a routine that fits your particular stage of life and responsibilities. Prov. 31:10-31 - This lady was heralded by God as a woman who looked well to the ways of her household! Tuesdays have and will always be "My Laundry Day" and I make sure every single thing in this house is laundered on Tuesday and then I know we both have what we need to look nice.

How is your schedule? Would love to hear....mine is flexible!!

Monday, August 23, 2010

God Is Always There!!!

Always!
There are people who think seeing obstacles is sign of maturity and insight. But anyone of average intelligence can do that. God wants people who see a way beyond the obstacles and who encourage others to take it.
Ecc. 1:18 "Knowledge is good, but knowledge that does not include God leads to sorrow."

Sunday, August 22, 2010

All About Me!!!

Wow! Yesterday was MARVELOUS! I heard from everyone for my birthday on FB!!!! My heart is bubbling over with joy and gratefulness for everyone making a commenting and me getting to say to them what I have wanted to say for a long time! Feel important! You bet I do!!! It was all about me and I just had a grand ole time and appreciated everyone who took the time to say something! Since we retired, I've had a real hard time accepting it, but I know my hubby knew it was time, so I sure wouldn't buck him and cause any commotion for it!

But, my birthday made up for me! Everybody needs somebody. When you begin to pour your effort into helping someone, it is absolutely amazing how that encouragement gets multiplied. Influence influences. The greater the positive impact you make on another person, the more likely that person can turn around and influence others positively! The problem is that we have a natural tendency to hold back. Why? Waiting on someone else to do it. Well, they didn't yesterday.......I accepted it all about me and soaked it up. Thank each and every single one of you. I feel so valued. It was an incredible birthday and one I will never forget!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Today's My Big Day!

I'm going to enjoy Facebook because I love to get comments. My hubby suggested me taking off a day because it is my awesome, loving birthday!! Thanks for understanding!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Two Sisters Today.........

Two of my blood-related Sisters have their birthday today! I hope both of you have a very happy day filled with tons of blessings. One lives in Oklahoma and the other in Kansas! : )

Then two Sisters left for August birthday!!! Tomorrow is yours truly and my youngest Sister. A-ha we were born on the same day!

I'm late with my blog...didn't get in late until last night...I couldn't stay away because it was past my bedtime, so consequently we did our morning coffee later this a.m. so here I am just now getting to writing it.

This morning the Bank that always loved me bringing in the church deposits are having a lil' birthday celebration for me. Those who know me know that I don't eat desserts, but I will eat the bottom part of the cake and not the chocolate icing. They told me the kind of cake I wanted. Proverbs 31:26-31 "She openeth her mouth unto wisdom and in her tongue is the law of kindness." I feel soooo honored. The rest of the scripture is so fabulous talking about an "older woman." That's me....I can't help it; I am getting older....might as well face it. The Bible tells me so! Happy Friday!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

My Momma

I have blogged before in previous years that my Momma passed away on my birthday, which is this Saturday, August 21st! This was in 1970 but I think about her every day and rejoice that she knew the Lord, although she never attended church in my lifetime. Here's a beautiful poem about her:

GOD IS KEEPING HER SAFE
If I could see my mother's face,
How happy I would be.
If I could hold her little hands,
That did so much for me.

Momma's eyes were brown as they could be,
Her hair was pure black and always curled.
Seems like everybody knew,
She grew up with many girls.

Sometimes when I go to sleep,
I see her in my dreams, especially her face.
If I could only tell her,
She can never be replaced.

God must have sent an angel
For her my summer birthday as she sickly lay,
But this I know, He took her,
She's safe with Him today!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

People!!!!!

No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person important!

How?

An e-mail to tell them what they mean to you.

Some type of contact. It won't happen until you make the effort.

People are vital. And we need each other. The statement "no man is an island unto himself" is a lonely life!

Put forth the effort.

Prov. 3:5-6 is a great scripture to relate with this.

Don't become stagment and leave out people that mean something! I am an avid people person and thrive on them!!! Yesterday I went by Clinique Counter to visit a friend of mine and we both shed tears as we have not taken the time to see each other. We couldn't stop hugging and oh so happy and promised not to let that happen this long!

How about you? What have you done lately to get back in touch with PEOPLE???? Have a very happy Wednesday. Three more days and I'll be one year older (er....younger)!

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Getting Closer!!!!

A high spot for me...the congrats are already starting! Saturday is my big day! One of the Managers at Bank of America is making me a cake Friday and they are celebrating! I'm honored! They are great people! Then tomorrow I will have the grandkids!! (That's a birthday celebration in and of itself....can't wait!!!) Then Sat. our adorable daughter is giving me a cam/chat birthday event!!! Oooooohhhh and then our Son will here Thursday eve. I'm thinking...how did this all happen so quick right before my very eyes and I'm just absorbing. My hubby gave me my present already!!! Woooohooo and then on the 29th we celebrate with our best friends!!!

Okay I'm blessed before the big day! What can I say. It makes my tummy flitter knowing all this love is being sent for just for me....Here's what I feel like writing:

There are high spots in all of our lives and most of them come about through encouragement from someone else................true, true, true! Thank you one and all. I am grateful!

Monday, August 16, 2010

OK I'm Ready!!!!

Pre-birthday week! Everyone that knows me knows that my precious, loving Momma died on my birthday the year 1970. So birthdays tend to be hard to bear and honestly, it's really hard to get over. So, each year, I get through by asking for prayers from all my beloved friends and know I will do okay.

Yesterday I spoke with our daughter and she was asking me what I wanted. Hmmm now that was hard to say. I know I have to do something about my hair. I've been letting it grow out longer and I kept bugging her as to what would look best....long or short? And of course she kept saying, what ever you feel like. So, I carried the conversation on to my hubby and that's funny, he said the same thing so I told him okay I'm ready to submit what I want for my birthday....money enough to get it cut and styled. We shall see...he agreed...saving to have my wish.

It feels fun wondering what a pre-birthday week will be like? Being a Mom, Grandma, and of course, wife, and friend to others......it will be magnificent, so I think I'll just sit back, relax, and just live it up until the day. I give myself credit for not being a self-centered person, so I'm okay with this pre-week before me and be ever so thankful for all things that happen. All I request is your prayers and am grateful for living such a happy life!!!!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Keep Expectations Positive!!!!

Reject rejection.

See mistakes as temporary.

See failures as isolated incidents.

Keep expectations positive!!

Focus on strengths.

Vary your approach to achievement.

Bounce back!

The sprinkler system awakened me way too early. So I'm up and want to keep a positive attitude! So, I'll write a little on positive blessings. It will make your life a blessing if you will just do what you say you'll do. People know when you "put them off" or reject them. Always focus on your strengths but share them with your friends. What about you? Do you bounce back quick from discouragement?

Exodus 14:13 is a great verse to read today. God is on your side and so am I. Be blessed this Sunday!

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Sharing Computers!!! Random Thoughts!!!!

It dawned on me that most of my subscribers to my blog share a computer. I've had so many ask me why no comments. This, I am sure, is the reason. E-mail always wins out for me. I'm still a Blogger and love every second of it.

The Bible

and

Believing in myself is my goal! I know I can do it; then I list out my goals. And once you learn how good you really are, you never settle for playing anything less than your very best!

I love Jeremiah 33:3. I do CALL unto the Lord. I believe lives are changed through the Miracle of Encouragement! God will see you and I through any circumstances. We rely on Him! He is always there!!! I'm up a tad bit early to get caught up on some writing for my new book and some mundane tasks I need to do. How about you? What's on your agenda for Saturday?

Isn't God incredible? Wow!

Friday, August 13, 2010

Ton of Blessings!!!!!!

Had a breakfast this 5 a.m.
He is a ton of blessings and love!
Family is always incredibly loving and wonderful!

What are your blessings? Do you have a ton?
God will never leave us or forsake us!!!!

This will be a brief blog because I have to go back by the Dentist Office.....I just hope and pray your weekend is so blessed, you can't even have enough even with tons of blessings!!!

Love,
Carol

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Disciplines For Your Prayer List

Means managing a list...with noone left to be prayed for.

It gives you a new strength - the strength gained through any discipline for facing and having a greater measure of self-control because you are in touch with the Lord.

Last night I fell asleep just praying for family, friends, and acquaintances! What a blessing!

Pray for the patience to wait for God to meet all their personal needs and our very own.

And God is glorified! Happy Thursday!!!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

((((Hugs))))

I'm a hugger. Jim and I have devoted friends who sign off "Humongous Hugs." Do you know what? I must look like a hugger. Even when I go in Petsmart to see the Fish Department, the girl in there hugs me. I couldn't tell you her name; she said she loves my compliments to her because she keeps the department so neat and clean. I even go in the bank and the Manager gives me a hug. I am soooo blessed. Of course my hubby gives me at least 14 a day! And that doesn't count the ones I give him. The dog even hugs me. My daughter and I send hugs over the phone. That's a cute one. Then our son, I sign off, "Hugs, mOm." Wow! Just thinking about hugs get my day going! It sounds so warm and happy. How about you? Do you like hugs. Let me know!

I'm sending a hug to you via my blog. Have a very happy Wednesday and I'm pretty sure I will name this National Hug Day!!! wooohoooo!!!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

What Is Your Favorite Pass Time?

One can get in a rut if there is no favorite pass time....life could really get boring. I like to look up new scriptures that apply to my living. I do miss my husband's teaching/preaching since he retired....so I look on my own ... yes, it takes time, but it fulfills my life!

How about you? Would love to hear from you. Hope your Tuesday is interesting!

Monday, August 9, 2010

Victory Over Triumph!!!!

...victory over our adversary!!!

I love it when winners win! People that cause so much trouble seem to think they win! They don't!!!

Saturday I was around women who care! Of course it was a memorial service, but I never felt so welcomed and received warmth from women who knew my neighbor friend. It was great to feel like you exist. I'm just rejoicing since Saturday for the kindness, courtesy, respect, appreciation, admiration, mutual interests, just wise women being the way it should be. Thanks ladies!!!! That's victory over triumph. My friend knew the Lord so we shall see her some day again!

May God give you a super day this Monday!!!!

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Goals!!!

Goals give you direction.

Goals help turn your dreams into realities.

My goal is to be real, honest, loyal friend, and let God's love shine to my family and those I come in contact with! Transparent also.....

One of my goals is to finish what I tend to.

Having a goal puts organization there and maximizes time!!!

Do you have a goal? Please share!!!

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Keep Focused!!!

Do you feel as though you're forever falling behind in your schedule?
Do you long for your life to be simpler and more focused?
You're not alone...it's a great thing to do....stay focused and keep your lists going and stay on top of important things! Enjoy your Saturday and remember to have fun as you keep focused! I know I am!!!

Friday, August 6, 2010

Are You Loyable?

So endearing and enduring...quality between two friends is loyalty. My neighbor friend passed away last Wednesday. Her Memorial is tomorrow and the fam. wants me to speak something. She had a marvelous family!!! Two daughters and three sons.

We had coffee together. She was a great person and friend. Her cancer became so unbearbly painful and she finally just gave up eating and became weaker and weaker.

But the most important thing in our friendship what that we were loyal; allegiance (Prov. 27:10 ..."Do not forsake your own friend.")

Devotion "A friend loves at all times...Prov. 17:17"

A friend is the one who comes in when the whole world has gone out. I covet your prayers for tomorrow.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Trust & Truth

Psalm 127:1 "Except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it."

Are your friends a true friend who when you get to the end of your rope will be there to pull you up? I would say, yes on this one.

Can you trust them?

Yes, most definitely!

Love - Romans 12:9 "Let love be without dissimulation." which means leet love be without hypocrisy.

Respect limitations and other's privacy...trust and hear the truth!!!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

ROUTINE

Remember to establish a routine that fits your particular stage of life and all the responsibilities. Then adjust your schedule as your life shifts from one stage to another. Schedule the kids need.....empty nest with its own unique need for routine. Just start where you are today....and start today.

Yesterday my routine was broken up after I got back from Dental work. My neighbor's daughter called and said her Mom passed away in the night. I had been over there several times to have prayers with her knowing her disease was terminal. So, I came back home and made twelve loaves of banana bread for their fam. She had five grown kids and several grandkids. They were so glad she didn't have to suffer. I was so glad my ROUTINE was broken to help out a family in need.

How is your routine going? I would love to hear. Happy Wednesday!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

God IS There In Times Of Need!!!!

He has never failed us yet and lately I've spoken to a lot of others who say God has been there in times of need.

I love Genesis 1:26-28 - his master plan for us!

Today would be a great day to scan over the scripture to see how He does reach us in time of need.

Of course, I'll be in the Dentist Chair to have my crown put on....ugh but I hope I it doesn't take long. God will be there in this time of need. I covet your prayers.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Are You A Positive Person?

Yes I am.

I'm always looking for a way to encourage someone with positive information. I know it sounds like I am bragging on myself. So, what's wrong with bragging on self? We need more of it. Too many people are down in the dump and can't bring it to themselves to brag on something good they have done.

Read the book of Ephesians in the Bible. It has a ton of positive promises!

I hope your Monday goes tremendous and you find something great to say about yourself!!!! I would encourage that; you will feel better and so proud to have a positive attitude, love for your hubby, and ways to have answers instead of problems! : )

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Bring on August!!!!

Supposed to be the hottest month!! Yikes!!! It hits you right in the face.

But stay warm (errr cool) inside and keep up Bible reading. I'm reminded that Galations 5:22 is my fav!!!!!

"The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control."

Lately I've run into some RUDE people....why they are rude I do not know, but I always tell my hubby, there was no cause for it.

We both decided that maybe they are "married to distration" - some of the things that cause that are "no boundaries" "getting too busy" "Drifting apart" "Watching too much tv" and "time spent overbooking actvities."

Keep Gal. 5:22 close by. We all need it! Bless you THIS LORD'S DAY!!!! We are getting treated to a Cracker Barrell breakfast....so I am soooo excited..better start getting ready. (Be sure and rest some today and practice counting your blessings!!)

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Great Energizers ....Random Thoughts

The Bible (of course the Lord), kids, grandkids, relatives, and friends! And most of all stay encouraged!

Once you get off course satan sets a trap and you're right back where you started from. You can't forgive, or get rid of the anger.

No race seems too long. Races builds with energy, and the team develops a momentum that is almost unstoppable.

Stay on course....stay with God and doing what's right!!!! Have a great emergizing Saturday!!!

Friday, July 30, 2010

Understanding Yourself

In discussing personality, we must know or understand ourselves. How can we ever hope to understand our mate if we do not understand our own self? How well do you really know yourself? Are we able to recognize our own strength and our own weakness? Often it is so easy to see the mote in the other person's eye and yet not know we have a beam in our own. Perhaps in some areas we are not conscious of our own short-comings. We may be able to deceive ourselves but usually our mate has a fairly good image of us. If we fail to meet his expectations, then it is our responsibility to check ourselves and correct our faults.

Are you willing for your hubby to be the head of your home? Are you willing to follow his leadership in private and family devotions?

After we have tried to become better acquainted with our own personality, and understand our attitudes more clearly, then we have victory!!!!

Have a great weekend and prayers for understanding yourself!!!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Thinking About Our Homes

Think about the place whre you live, the place you call home. What kind of atmosphere do you create? The woman sets the spirit of the home. By and large, it's a sphere and a place we build, watch over, manage, and love. So why shouldn't we dive in and put our passion into it?

Ask the Lord for a makeover. Talk to other women who love to keep their homes. Ask your husband what he thinks. Pick up and organize "stuff" that piles up.

This is where you rest, create, think, pray, cook, all the necessary things to go out in public and shine for the Lord. So, why shouldn't we keep a home founded and esstablished by God. It is the oldest institution in the world!!!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Wisdom!!!!

I'm up super early. My mind has been on WISDOM lately? So, do you need wisdom? You'll ind it in the Bible. Do you need encouragement? It, too, lies on the sacred pages! Just read it!

The Bible is alive!

It speaks to me!

It corrects, mends, and instructs me!!

The Bible equips me for answers and soothes my troubled mind!

We shouldn't wander through life that causes us to stumble or miss our way!

Get wisdom!!!! Be sure you turn to the Bible to show you the right way, to help you to avoid the wrong way and to manage your life God's way! Not popular these days, but sooo necessary!!!

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Pumped!!!!!!

I am so pumped!!!! I got an awesome encouraging e-mail today from our devoted friend and I am thanking the Lord for her. She noted that she heard the song "Behold He Comes" and remembered me singing it at Lighthouse Church (the last church we Pastored).....wow...with that I am pumped to practice my singing again. That was a tough song to sing, but I always stayed with the background music!

Thanks Friend, Geneva and may God bless you so devotedly for passing on this encouragement. It gives me chills, gratitude, and a reason to keep serving the Lord. Have a happy Tuesday everyone because I am going to enjoy this e-mail and be blessed by it!!!

Monday, July 26, 2010

God is Amazing!

Trust Him!
He gives us courage!
He gives us ENcouragement!
And then He gives us energy to continue on!!!!

How about you? How has God been amazing to you?

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Two Different Kinds of Leaders

Leaders can win the confidence, trust, and friendship of the people they lead by taking the spotlight off of themselves and putting it on others. In fact, this works in all areas of life.

Philippians 2:3-4 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of youlook out not only for his own interests but the interest of others.

Honor the whole team. Everyone needs encouragement. Just letting someone know their work and friendship is important and appreciated makes each one of us run more smoothly, become stronger and more effective.

I want to be a leader that encourages others. How about you? What is your goal?

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Devoted Christians!!!!

My husband and I have a couple that are devoted Christians. They are always serving the Lord. They were our #1 couple that only eternity will reveal how much they helped us at Lighthouse. Now that we have retired, they are now still serving at another church, but we cannot thank God enough for their encouragement they still give us now. The world is better because of these two devoted friends. I dedicate my blog to them today. My neighbor's security light stayed on all night and finally kept me awake at a very early time this morning. We shared our love for the Clarks last night on our date night and although I slept like a log, they are devoted Christians and we want to give honor, glory, and praise to our precious Lord for them! She was my hubby's Office Administrator...or whatever task was needed. We have fond memories of her husband and her always so faithful (never missed a Sunday) to help Pastor Jim. (or me). God is so good to give such tremendous memories of such a lovely, dedicated couple.

Do you have a couple that have been an inspiration to you and your hubby? I'd love to know.

Friday, July 23, 2010

One Little Corner........

One little corner is all I need,
Where I can have a Bible to read.
A chair by the window with sun coming through,
Some pretty summer flowers still covered with dew -
Always a hubby to warm her with love,
And answers to prayers from the Lord above!

Does your passion need to be renewed? I'd love to hear what you need. I wrote this little poem to get me started each day to get in touch with God, read his word, and thank him so much for the blessings of the day!

The weekend is almost here! Have a great one!

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Are You A Busy Woman?

What's the answer to that question?

Yesterday I took a "Carol Day" -- didn't even look at Facebook, e-mails, or writing for hubby. So, does that make me a busy woman?

let's discover the directions the Lord gave me. After all, we want to do and be what He wants us to do and be!

What difference should it make to us that we house the Holy Spirit in our bodies? That our bodies are temples of God? Here's a little checklist that will help us to take better care of our bodies.

Guard yourself Prov. 4 ... understand the subject....YOU

Walk in righteousness - avoid temptations

Avoid sexual sin (I Cor. 6:13) - profanes our Lord!

Glorify God in your body. If you are causing someone to stumble, fix it, ask for forgiveness.

Enjoy your Thursday!

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

HOME

.....is the Father's kingdom,
.....is the Mother's world,
.....is the Child's paradise.

I hope your Wednesday is filled with grace, mercy and lots of love.
Take some time and enjoy your lovely home. We have so much to be thankful for.

I'm having a "Carol" Day! wooohoooooo

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Self Esteem!!!

I think it boils down to taking a "God look" at youself. Once you feel confident in what God has designed, you can at that point care about others. Let me be like Mary who had fellowship with the Lord. And hope the food is very good for all I invite to serve them. God wants us to read his word. The closer we feel to Him, I know it makes us happier, love more, be extra confident (not arrogant) and one who wants others to have the same God we have!

I hope your Tuesday is better than anything and God blesses you in a marvelous way!

Monday, July 19, 2010

God Honored Home!!!

The home may be spacious; it might even small but great!
But when God is honored ....lots of willing hands will help and share in lifting burdens others bear.

Why be God honored?
Christian homes give hope for the Nation and faith will conquer fear and despair!

So private and loving; the bond is so secure!

Does your home reflect God's love and care?

May your Monday be saturated with love, kindness, and appreciation!

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Challenges!!!

Recently I had the privilege of helping a lady that wanted to give "love" to her husband and didn't know how. I challenged her to go all the way and truly love him. I said like "mutual friends" on FB...give him mutual understanding! It's impossible to live with a person you are always trying to "figure out." Understanding must not be mistaken for remodeling. No one likes to be made over - especially if it is your husband or wife trying to do it. This only tends to make the sparks fly. I challenged her to accept him as he is for what he is. Accept him for himself - not the man you want him to be. Believe in him, pray with him and for him; cooperate with him, cheer him, be patient when things go wrong.

Are you challenged by this? Give him his time alone and James 5:16 says to confess your faults one to another (husband or wife), and pray for one another that ye may be healed. Take time to listen and love with preoccupation or interruption. That's the core of any great marriage. Happy Saturday!!!!

Friday, July 16, 2010

Celebrating Friday!!!!

I always watch the America Morning and Local News. And they say "We are celebrating Friday." Celebrating what? Of course I know...the end of a busy week and a way to do what freedom there is on Sat. and Sunday! The weather is a must to listen to, so don't forget that!

Celebrating Friday for me is "Friday date night." This is what I have framed on my desk: Remember - as every thread of gold is valuable; so is every moment of time. What do you think that means? To me it means make the most out of time together and stay consistent. There have been times when hubby and I just went to Las Lupes and shared an ala carte taco....(cost $1.25) my hubby loves the very hot sauce and chips and I love the taco. With having to have dental work, chips are out for me now, but a soft shell taco will do!!! And the great time about Date Night is dreaming up what to do??? With nothing....with something, but most of all the love for each other!!!

By the way............thank you each one for subscribing to my blog...I posted it on FB and got great results! woohooo

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Love That Man!!!!!

My hubby took my pic again and I placed it on FB. This has been fun; he truthfully doesn't like FB, but he knows I truly love it! Any way, FB is a bit overwhelming to me but I love keeping in touch with peeps.

I titled this blog, Love that man.....why????

He is my beloved and friend!!! (Song of Solomon 5:16) My hubby's loyal love works wonders!!!

When I am sad, he cheers me.
When he does noble things, I love to praise him.
When I am generous, he appreciates me.
When he is talkative, I listen to him and vice versa.
Whether he comes or goes, I give lots of kisses and he as well.

We are both working together to help others. Pray for us!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Creating!!!! Random Thoughts

Trying to create the back yard with hubby and with really no money, but being very grateful that Lowe's lets us know when their plants are $1.....isn't that marvelous?

Between facilitating married couples now which we are thrilled to do, we are creating something we can enjoy and missing the growth we saw in church members, it's nice to see couples advance in their marriage and find the reason why things aren't working and, of course, see flowers grow. I call it living out God's plan with passion and purpose.

Next to your relationship with God, your marriage is most urgent....and demanding. Yet it pays life's highest dividends. I don't know about you, but whenever anything is wrong in the least bit between hubby and me, I am miserable. Gotta communicate, spend time together, lavish him with my love! (And he does the same!)

Your loyal love for your hubby and creativity will work wonders in your marriage!!!
Takes time and love!!! Love, love, love it!

Enjoy your Wednesday!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Check Attitude At The Door!!!!

It says so in Philippians 2:14. I think I will. It's tragic that most people have NO clue what that means! So, what do they do? They come with a BAD attitude and ruin everyone's day! Bummer. My question would be what would Jesus do? Probably roll up his sleeves and check his attitude in that it would be one of love, peace, and joy!!!!! It glorifies God in a marvelous way! Enjoy your Tuesday!!! : )